mRNA – the “Borg” – more than just a vaccination

It’s all about how I perceive the “vaccine” and its effect on a spiritual level. I put the term “vaccine” in quotation marks because I am of the opinion that this is by no means what we have understood by a vaccination up to now.

The vaccination program, which was largely initiated by the WHO, was controversial from the outset. In the meantime, the massive side effects and damage are increasingly appearing in the mass media.

However, only the physical and medical side effects make the headlines. These are also worrying, but only part of the total.

Much more dramatic than the physical effects is another aspect of this “vaccination”. Namely the effect on a spiritual and mental level. This is still discussed far too little and certainly not in the general public. Although this effect has far more dramatic consequences than any physical symptoms.

This “vaccination” attempts to separate people from their spiritual and energetic basis. And not passively, as previous vaccinations have done, but actively, which in my opinion is not a side effect, but the primary effect of this substance. Whether intentional or not.

This “vaccination” acts as an entity and does so in a targeted and very structured way.

People, energy and connection

We humans are incarnations of spiritual beings. We exist on the level of energy, from which all matter arises. And even while we are incarnated here materially, we have a connection to our higher self on the level of energy.

Not only healers and shamans have them, everyone has them. Even if not everyone actively works with it, even if not everyone is aware of it.

This “vaccination” attempts to sever this connection. As a result, the human being exists as a purely material shell without contact to the source of his energy. It’s a little reminiscent of zombies or the “Borg” from “Starship Enterprise”.

Anyone who still has their connection will notice the change that comes with it. People who have lost their connection can no longer be reached on a spiritual level. There is no more resonance. They appear robotic, are no longer accessible and are no longer critical of the forces they are trying to control.

They follow the most abstruse ideologies unthinkingly and thoughtlessly. Parents lose the energetic connection to their children, families lose the connection to each other, people degenerate into mere shells.

It’s all very subtle and only noticeable when you consciously connect and in many cases you no longer get a response.

A key experience in Colombia

One experience clearly showed me the extent of the misery, even though I had already carried out countless vaccine transformations at the time and had developed a certain professionalism in dealing with this energy. Nevertheless, the massiveness of this experience pretty much “knocked my socks off”.

It was November 2021, we traveled to Bogota, Colombia for a few days. Shortly before the country introduced compulsory vaccination for entry. Within the country, many people had already been vaccinated and there didn’t seem to be many critics, at least not publicly.

One day we were out and about in the center of Bogota and came across a market. There was a huge crowd, normally we avoid such events, but it looked like there were only a few market stalls and so we pushed our way through.

The further we got, the more aware we became of the sheer size of this market and it must have taken us an hour to get out of the biggest crowds. Something like that happens to you in Latin America, a rather funny adventure in itself.

So far so good, we were on our way home again when suddenly, for no apparent reason, our older daughter stumbled and hit her face on the floor. Not much happened, but still a fall that would not have happened under normal circumstances. A child may stumble out of nowhere, but it catches itself and doesn’t hit its nose on the pavement for long.

A few hundred meters further on, our little daughter runs into a wall just as suddenly and for no reason. While running, she turned and ran straight into the front of the house. Also with the nose, without intercepting. Without reason. She may be a wild child, but there’s never been anything like it.

And when we finally got home, I was literally “dismantled”. Out of nowhere, attacks of fever, aching limbs, dizziness and nausea. And – and this really worried me at that moment – I had lost contact with my spirits!

That was new for me. I’ve been sick a lot and before anyone cries out “that was Corona”, I’ve been sick worse. Much worse. But I never lost contact with my spirits. That was new and it really scared me at first.

It took me two days to re-establish contact and find out what had happened. We were infected by the “vaccination”. For the first time I could feel this entity in my own body and it was a dramatic experience.

Unlike evil-meaning entities, demons or black magic attacks, for example, I was suddenly dealing with a kind of semi-mechanical being. A being with whom I could make contact, but who was not accessible. For nothing. It wanted nothing but to do its “job”. Like a machine. And this job consisted of gaining control over myself and separating myself from my energetic base. Which she succeeded in doing temporarily.

I felt reminded of the “Borg” from “Starship Enterprise”. And the only way to push this creature back was massive violence. While you can usually still negotiate with a demon, it was impossible here because there was simply no response. This entity was simply not accessible for anything.

I was only able to force every single one of these beings out of me and then out of my family with the help of my spirits and massive pressure. I was only able to do all this because I already had experience with it, because I have a lot of experience with shamanic-magical work and because I had concentrated all my energy on it. I must have been flat for a week and even after that it took a while before I was really fit again.

What must it be like for people who are completely unprepared, perhaps even completely unaware?

Symptoms

People in whom the effect fully unfolds lose the connection to themselves on a spiritual level, to their higher self. They become quasi “empty” shells, existences that exist purely materially.

The essence of the “vaccination” works a bit like an occupation. She takes control of her host and makes him work for her. This explains why vaccinated people vehemently defend their vaccination even when they are already experiencing severe physical symptoms. And that these people are no longer in a position to look for a solution. Because they are no longer themselves.

Even definitive suggestions are often met with extremely aggressive reactions, including open death threats.

And since this experience, it has become increasingly clear to me and my family how people are changing in the various countries we visit. Energetic access to these people is often almost impossible.

This is not outwardly noticeable, but on closer inspection there is no longer any resonance. We often had the strong feeling that we were no longer interacting with people but with human machines. They work, but without an energetic connection.

Worldwide

The way I see it, this “vaccine” is already conquering the world without having to be actively injected. It is already in the water, air and food and it spreads from person to person.

This explains why some definite opponents of vaccination suddenly show symptoms. Are less accessible, are no longer connected. Some of them are no longer critical. Some may still notice that something is wrong, but they no longer have the opportunity to take action.

Protecting my family and myself also demands a lot from me. In addition to all the clients who confide in me. It is possible, but it is exhausting and it is an ongoing process.

Why all this?

I can only speculate about this, because unlike a demon, a possession or a magical attack, I get no response to the question of why. I realize that this must be about power. But who exactly wants to exercise this power and for what purpose is not entirely clear to me either. Is it even a targeted plan and if so, by whom or what?

It almost feels as if the much-vaunted “artificial intelligence” is already much more advanced than we think. You could almost think that there is already some kind of machine behind it that also wants to turn people into a kind of machine.

Because without contact to our spiritual and energetic base, we are just machines. Again, the comparison to the “Borg” from “Starship Enterprise” comes to mind. This way of life was also about assimilating and equalizing all life. The purpose for which this was ultimately to take place remained unclear. Power as an end in itself? And who or what is behind the “machine”?

Of course, it is also conceivable that deeply human goals are being pursued. But that would be a dangerous game. Perhaps one that has long since gotten out of control?

This naturally raises the question of why compulsory vaccination is still being pushed through with such vehemence among soldiers in particular. Why the soldiers in particular? What are we working towards here?

The spiritual scene

It is also alarming that the “leaders” of the spiritual scene in particular, those gurus, speakers, coaches etc., have also promoted this “vaccination” almost en masse and are still doing so. The better known and with the more followers, the more vehemently the pro-vaccination line was often pursued.

I receive inquiries from people who are desperate to find that all their spiritual teachers are no longer recognizable. They are no longer accessible, sometimes take a dogmatic line and try to indoctrinate their students.

What to do?

If you are aware of the danger because you still have your connection, you can and must fight against it and at least keep yourself “clean”. Even harsh critics are currently softening, losing their bite and being drawn into this energy. Even very spiritual people lose contact with themselves and often don’t realize it. They become empty shells that continue to appear very spiritual to the outside world. But if you feel it, there is no longer any resonance.

We have met many interesting and very critical people on our long-term journey since the end of 2020, but the response is increasingly drying up here too. There are fewer of them, many seem to have given up or are now also fading into the obedient masses.

It is the task of all healers, shamans, magicians etc. to analyze this energy and push it back. Whether the problem can ever be solved for good remains to be seen. I now see this as a kind of war against the human connection to the source of our energy. Perhaps one that has been running for a long time and is only now really showing itself?

Or is it part of our development?

In my opinion, this process is by no means irreversible. This semi-mechanical entity of the “vaccination” is effective as long as it is in the host’s body. If they are removed from it, people re-establish their connection to the spiritual level.

This does not mean that existing physical symptoms disappear, but they become treatable again. People become human again. However, it can also be reinfected.

This work requires a lot of energy and an alert connection, but it is not impossible. We humans are still incarnations of spiritual entities even when we are disconnected and we are all basically on the same level. No one is fundamentally superior to the other, it is not possible for one side to “win” and one to “lose”.

Outlook

This “fight” seems to be a longer-term problem. It is certainly a battle against man as an incarnation of universal energy. Or perhaps a fight against ourselves? It is important to be awake, to listen and, above all, to explicitly tap into your own strength again and again.

There are still an incredible number of alert and connected people around the world, and the situation is by no means hopeless. Rather, I see this as a learning task for many healers and shamans. Let’s accept it!

A topic that is – admittedly – rather rare but in some cases extremely important. But I really appreciate cases like this. They demand my full energy and always involve a certain challenge.

Two sides of my work

Basically, I am active in two shamanic areas. On the one hand in the spiritual-energetic personality development and on the other hand in the shamanic-magical area in which it is about working with curses, imprecations, possessions, targeted magical work and dealing with demons.

In the first area, the issue of anonymity plays no role at all. So far, none of my coaching clients have had the idea of remaining anonymous. Why would that make sense?

Quite the opposite. Even though I work almost exclusively from a distance, I get to know many of my clients personally at some point. And even if you don’t, you come very close on a certain level. Because it’s almost always about very personal issues.

Sometimes you are almost part of the family, and often for long periods of time. There is also no reason to avoid it. A certain professional distance is required.

After some time, I often look after not just one member of the family but all of them and also know their spouses and children. My discretion has always been safe and will remain so. I don’t divulge anything. There is no reason to hide or conceal anything from me.

Who wants to remain anonymous?

In the second area of my work, things sometimes look quite different. Because the clientele is usually completely different.

Who has problems with a demon? Demons are very powerful and ancient beings that live off the energy of their victims. And they look for people with a lot of energy. People who are very powerful or handle a lot of money, for example. Or people who are very famous.

Who needs to deal with black magic attacks? This is extremely time-consuming, nobody does it just to annoy the neighbor. There are tangible reasons behind them and the victims of actual magical attacks are people who somehow stand out from the crowd. Some protrude very far out. Victims for whom an attack is “worthwhile” from the attacker’s point of view.

These are people who are concerned that this particular problem should not be made public. Not even rumored. Not at all. Sometimes it’s not even about publicity but about secrecy towards the rest of the family or within a company.

It is not enough for such clients if I assure them of my discretion. Because too much depends on it and my computer can be hacked and my documents stolen. Despite all caution.

It is not enough to sign a non-disclosure agreement, no matter how many pages it has. The collaboration must be truly anonymous.

How is that supposed to work?

As I work on a purely spiritual level, I only need to access the client’s higher self. So to him or her on a spiritual level. Normally I get this access through the consent of the client and through the name or contact with him on a material level.

But this also works without the material level. An alias can be used for this purpose, for example. The client calls himself “Dieter Mustermann” (in practice, the aliases are much more euphonious) and we link this alias to the client’s person.

There is an easy-to-perform ritual for this, in which the client himself links the chosen alias with his name or the name of the person for whom the work is being commissioned, if he cannot do it himself. No evidence for this link remains. Anyone can perform this ritual, I provide instructions. It works in a similar way with real estate, boats, airplanes and cars. They can be linked via symbols and then separated again.

I do my work with the alias or the associated symbol and the client does not appear by name at all. I don’t know who he is either, I only see him on a spiritual level and I can’t and don’t want to find out who he is in his current incarnation.

The communication

As with all other clients, communication takes place via email or messenger; the client can easily create corresponding accounts for the alias. This can be done anonymously.

What has already happened is indirect communication via lawyers or agencies, which is complicated and exhausting. But there is always a solution.

The settlement

Cash in an envelope, handed over by dark figures in dark alleys? Yes, theoretically this would also be possible, but in practice it is rather unusual.

No, in such cases I invoice law firms, agencies, offshore companies or foundations. Quite normal. Quite legally. Payable by bank transfer or crypto. As with all other clients. And often referred to as (business) coaching.

For me, all this is much more time-consuming and exhausting than shamanic coaching, but dealing with magic and/or demons is exhausting anyway.

Of course, this can only be a very superficial and fragmentary insight, everything else would go beyond the scope of an article and would fill many meters of bookshelves elsewhere.

The spirit helpers

The shaman understands a spirit helper to be an entity of the spiritual world that he experiences as helping, or that behaves in a helping manner towards him, or at least has the potential to do so.

A classic spirit helper, for example, is the power animal, which the shamanic practitioner encounters in animal form. In most cases, the power animal is one of the first spirit helpers that the beginner gets to know.

But we don’t just encounter these helpers in animal form. They can also be natural beings such as elves, dwarves, goblins or natural beings that we can’t really categorize at first. They can be figures from mythology, such as Thor, Odin or other Norse gods, but also include Jesus, Lucifer or the archangels.

Also all other angelic beings or Buddha and other figures from the Buddhist, Hindu or any other religious context.

Our ancestors can also act as spirit helpers and sometimes we do not even succeed in materially assigning the respective perception. And it doesn’t have to, because the form of appearance is just a form. The spiritual plane has no material dimension and therefore no form. This is created by us so that we can get an idea of what makes the practical work with a spirit helper much easier.

What to do with the spirit helper?

But what do you do with a spirit helper once you have made contact? That is a question of intention. Our personal helpers, such as our power animals or our own ancestors, can answer questions about our life, our past and our personality or help us to find a path in life.

They help us to find ourselves and go our own way. They occasionally provide comfort and are a source of support in times of great uncertainty. However, they can also help practicing shamans in their work with clients or energies, just as colleagues can support them with projects.

The same applies to those helpers who have no personal connection to us. They can also help us in uncertain situations or put us on a viable path. They also help the shaman in his work when he needs help.

Access to the spirit helpers takes place via the shamanic journey. Experienced shamans also have access without a special framework, just like when you talk to your colleagues in the neighboring office.

It is important that contact and interaction always come about consciously. The person is always in control of when, how long and what they talk about with the spirit helpers.

An entity that connects with us against our will or even gives us orders is not a helper but a possession.

Deva / plant deva / plant spirit

A plant deva is the spiritual being behind a plant, the soul of the plant, so to speak. Just as we humans incarnate as spiritual beings here in the material world, spiritual beings also incarnate as plants.

Which is why you can communicate with plants on a spiritual level just as you can with people and animals or spirit helpers of all kinds. Incidentally, the word deva comes from Sanskrit and means something like the shining ones, the radiant ones.

And so the plant devas were and are repeatedly described as radiant beings of light, sometimes also somewhat teasingly as little flower elves or forest fairies. But this is always just an idea, because spiritual beings in themselves have no physical appearance. Or, in the case of plants, only the appearance of the plant as it stands before us.

Much more important than any manifestations are the possibilities that open up to us with the knowledge of the plant spirits. Many people who collect medicinal herbs or harvest plants make contact with the plant spirit beforehand. They ask for permission and advice on how much they can take without causing too much damage to the plant.

The answers from the plant devas should definitely be taken seriously if you want to continue to benefit from them in the future. You can also gain valuable information about them by talking to a plant deva. Many successful gardeners communicate with their plants in this way and find out when and how they want to be cared for. Success always proves them right.

Herbalists often get their knowledge directly from the plants and not so much from books. This ranges from the use of certain herbs for certain diseases to detailed information on harvesting, preparation and dosage.

If you have any questions on this topic, please write to me using the contact form on this page.

Sometimes it’s like milking mice …

Or you realize that although you resolved to be completely different from your parents when you were young, you now react in exactly the same way as they did back then. This is particularly noticeable if you have children yourself.

You may have a partner who increasingly reminds you of your mother or father. With all the complications that entails. You realize that it’s not working somehow, but you can’t get out of the pattern.

Or you develop behavioral patterns that hinder you in life, but whose cause you cannot explain with the best will in the world. Very often, problems with money, business and career can be traced back to this.

Maybe you somehow feel like you’re slipping into your parents’ lives, even though that’s the last thing you want. And that you even pass this on to your children.

I can reassure you. You are neither crazy, nor broken, nor hopelessly lost.

Because all too often, these issues really don’t come from you, but from your ancestors. Whether you know them or not. Even educational psychology has now recognized the extent to which the behavioural patterns of our ancestors are transferred to us without us noticing.

And if that’s the case, you can work on yourself as much as you want. As long as the ancestral issues are still there, this has no lasting effect and the same problems keep coming back. If you are able to solve them in your ancestral line, I can help you.

The ancestors

But who are the ancestors? The way I see it, these are our direct ancestors. So our parents, grandparents, great-grandparents and so on, almost back to infinity. That’s a lot of people, every generation doubles the further back you look.

“But I don’t know any of them”, you might object. Of course you don’t know them, most of them died long before you were born. But you don’t have to know them either, because we work on a spiritual level. Some of my clients don’t even know their own parents.

That’s the point

This is exactly what ancestor clearing is all about. We establish contact with your ancestors on a spiritual level and then we go back as far as necessary to resolve the inherited issues. At least eight generations, sometimes even more.

And then we roll up the field from behind, so to speak, and solve the inherited issues that are weighing you down. This does not mean that you have to solve the problems of your ancestors. No, these are their problems.

You stop the issues being passed on to you. Because you don’t have to deal with their problems too, you have enough to deal with in your own life. You even free your children from it, because otherwise you will pass everything on to them in the same way as your ancestors passed it on to you.

The method

You don’t need any special skills and you don’t have to do any genealogical research. The method I have developed for this works very reliably and guides you safely through the process. And without personal contact, because we also work on a spiritual level here.

As an aid, you will receive a sound file from me that will guide you through the entire process and, of course, detailed instructions. And of course you are not alone, I will accompany you on a spiritual level through the whole process.

Nothing can happen to you and you can’t do anything wrong either. You just have to make the decision and sometimes it takes a little effort to take this step. But it’s worth it, I promise you that.

Our goal

In the end, such an ancestor clearing ensures that your ancestors are where they belong and that you are where you belong, at the top, because this is YOUR life. And you are all a little freer energetically than before.

This is not only good for you, but also good for your ancestors. Your ancestors can focus on their progress on a spiritual level and you can finally act freely in the material world.

You will be amazed at how much strength you have at your disposal afterwards that you had to use before to balance out the inherited patterns again and again.

The next level

And not only can you free yourself from inherited patterns, you can also include your ancestors in your team.

There are often people there who can still help you now. Especially if you have healing powers yourself, you will be amazed at how many healers you will find among your ancestors. Or entrepreneurs, inventors, intellectuals and, of course, parents.

How?

Ancestor clearing to release the blocking patterns is part of the “Deeper Mind Empowerment” coaching package. You can get started either directly with the package or with the starter package if you don’t want to buy a pig in a poke.

The subsequent levels, the targeted use of the powers and knowledge of your ancestors are then part of the more advanced packages such as the Abundance Package or the Healer Package.

Unfortunately, there is also a lot that misses the point. In this case, the rejection of the term “guilt” is almost reflexive. This is not the point here, only the choice of words implies it.

At the end of the day, “Holschuld” means nothing other than that someone has to give me something, but doesn’t bring it to me, so I have to get it from them. So I have to become active if I want it, because the other person doesn’t become active on their own initiative. He doesn’t bring it to me, I go and get it.

In the narrower sense, this often refers to financial matters, but the term is also used for non-financial aspects.

For example in the saying: “Knowledge is a debt”. Which means you have to acquire knowledge yourself and on your own initiative, because it is not carried after you. Personal responsibility, once again.

“But life is my absolute basic right”, you might object.

Yes, it is. Every human being has exactly the same right to life as everyone else. Just like that. Automatic. But having a right to something does not mean that it is carried after you or that it is ready washed and folded in the cupboard.

Your place in life is not kept free by a mysterious placeholder until you are comfortable taking it.

The Middle Ages

The history of the Middle Ages is full of just such stories. How often have there been cases of unclear succession or even people who have simply withheld their place from a legitimate heir to the throne?

Because the heir to the throne was perhaps still a child and could therefore easily be exiled somewhere. No one came and fetched him, dressed him in new clothes and put him on his throne. Why would they?

No, he had to see for himself how he could get what he wanted. Yes, to his right. Perhaps he really did, and perhaps it was even undisputed (which it almost never was in the Middle Ages). But he had to take care of that himself.

He had to convince people to fight with him, he had to raise an army and then he had to fight for his rights. Not everyone was victorious, not everyone survived. And these heirs to the throne were almost never desired by the masses. Certainly not from the nobility. Nobody wanted these people, but nevertheless they asserted their rights and took their place, or at least tried to.

This often resulted in long wars, such as the English Wars of the Roses or the Hundred Years’ War between England and France.

Today’s time

And even today, who hasn’t heard the saying: “Being right and getting right are two pairs of boots”?

Because even though we have so many laws in our modern world, there is no guarantee that we will automatically get our rights. We often have to hire lawyers and fight for our rights.

We have to take action ourselves, no one else will do it for us. At the very least, we have to pay someone to fight for us. A lawyer, for example. But the action and the decision to do so always come from ourselves.

As a plaintiff, you are often not only unwelcome to the defendant, but also to society. Sometimes you are really the “bogeyman” when you are fighting for your rights. Because the other side is perhaps popular or the injustice is not recognizable to everyone.

This makes it doubly difficult to stand up for your rights and demand them.

Life

Well, what about your right to live? Yes, you have that right. You have the right to live the way you want to, but no one is going to hold that against you. You will have to take care of it yourself, perhaps fight for it. There’s no one to hold your place. This may still be the case in kindergarten, but after that it’s over and you have to look after your own place.

Otherwise exactly nothing happens. It’s like the rightful heir to the throne sitting in exile and doing nothing. He spends his whole life in exile and then dies there. He can do it, of course, but he mustn’t moan.

As a healer / priest / seer etc..

People who operate purely on a material level often manage this quite well. Job, house, car, boat, place in society, career, etc. They already take care of that. It’s not so terribly difficult, it doesn’t hurt anyone. It doesn’t stand out, doesn’t stand out, is even popular.

People with spiritual abilities find this a little more difficult because they have often learned as children that they are wrong. That it’s really bad to show yourself in your full strength. That people then turn away and they are even more alone than they already are. Being defiant or even angry about this only makes things worse.

Very often, my work consists of working on precisely these issues. Sometimes this drives my clients to despair because their situation seems to get worse the more they show themselves.

“Everyone is turning away from me”, “my whole family rejects me”, “I’ll lose my job”, “the club will throw me out” or “I’ll die if I show my face” are typical statements. And they are not imaginary or invented, they are real.

How will the heir to the throne have felt? Alone in exile, with no one to trust but yourself? But he realized that he had to do something himself, even at the risk of being rejected by everyone or even dying. Because he is the evil aggressor who wants to change things. Nobody wants people who really make a difference. If he fails, there is only a “serves him right”.

And so are you, on your way to your full greatness. The people who were used to you being so practically sweet and well-behaved will reject you at first, because from their point of view you’re going crazy. People will use their belief systems to see the heretic in you.

From their point of view, you are in a cult or delusional. Because you are suddenly so unpleasant, suddenly have needs, suddenly no longer have a connection to everyone. You can no longer be used, you no longer subordinate yourself. You are no longer quiet when the grown-ups are talking.

Suddenly you’re weird, strange or scary. You talk about topics they don’t understand and you no longer talk about meaningless nonsense. You no longer take everything for granted. Suddenly you are so “aloof”

And – very importantly – you suddenly get noticed a lot more because you become more visible. You attract attention, you attract completely different people, people on higher levels, you rise, so to speak.

And leave behind those who do not want to or cannot follow you. That creates a powerful headwind, especially if these are people from your immediate environment. This in turn scares you and so you don’t even go to your size.

The debt to be collected

Because you are unconsciously waiting for someone to finally come and save you and put you on your throne. The universe must finally give you what you deserve! You are looking for your place without realizing that you have to create it first. Where you want to go.

And that brings us to the debt to be collected. This means nothing more than that YOU sit down in your own seat or nobody does. The universe supports you, but you have to do something about it.

I’ll go even further and say that nobody wants you to come into your full power!

Because you are always uncomfortable, no longer useful, rebellious, no longer nice, etc. Nobody will use their life energy to lift you to your place in life. People all have enough to do with their own lives, plus it’s handy to have someone to push around.

So you will either go against this resistance and become your own size or not at all. Your decision. You just have to realize that no one will simply give you your place in life. The others will always think there’s no room for you.

Convince them otherwise. You create your place in life and occupy it!

What I can do

I won’t put you in your seat either, how could I? But I can help you understand the principles you need to understand to take your place. Because I walked the path myself, made space for myself and took it.

I can help you to remove blockages, get in touch with your life energy and introduce you to basic techniques. And I’ll go with you if it gets lonely on the way or you get a headwind, because I don’t mind seeing you on your throne.

It always starts with the introductory session, after which you might continue with Deeper Mind Empowerment. Please write me an email for further information.

Why do you recognize connections that no one else does? How do you sometimes just know things? Why do people with very deep problems so often come to you? And you can even help them without knowing exactly how? Even though you yourself often don’t know how to cope in this seemingly strange world?

Do you have the feeling that you don’t belong here, that you finally want to go “home“? Perhaps since you were a small child?

Were you “weird” as a child or often alone because you didn’t get on with anyone and no one got on with you? Didn’t even your parents really see you? Do you feel alone with this?

Then here’s the good news: you are NOT alone!

There are a lot of us, but unfortunately a lot of people don’t know it and those who do don’t necessarily run around town telling everyone. I am already part of a minority within a minority. By having a website and showing myself.

But that’s my way. It’s not always easy and it took me a long time and a lot of help before I found it. Now I help people who are like me. The healers are. However that may turn out.

But what is a healer and what types are there?

The following types of healers rarely appear in their pure form. These are usually mixed forms with weightings in one or more of the categories. And my comments are certainly not complete.

Ultimately, every healer goes their own way and this path has no predetermined direction and no end. The path is the existence of the healer.

a) The classical healer

This can be a shaman or someone who works specifically with people on a spiritual level. Sometimes these are also alternative practitioners, but not always. Some work with predefined techniques, others with their own methods. Some with practice, others purely from a distance.

b) Working with animals

There are also healers who only work with animals. As a veterinary practitioner or as a pure healer.

c) Magician / Witch

Magic is a way of deliberately influencing the material reality of life through magical practices from the spiritual side. Not like Harry Potter or Bibi Blocksberg, that would be practical, but it doesn’t work that way.

No, it’s more subtle, less direct and rarely showy. But it is still possible to change your own reality or that of a client in a targeted way. How far a magician goes and what he does or does not do is fluid. There is no patent remedy, but the possibilities are almost endless.

d) Earth healing

There are also healers who do not work with humans or animals, nor magically, but with the energies of Mother Earth. They carry out clearings, track down magical places, clear local energies or research them.

Often in combination with geomantic techniques or with technical aids.

e) Priest / Priestess

A priest is a mediator between the worlds. Of course, every healer is, but a priest does not work with the aim of directly influencing the lives of humans and animals, but is responsible for rituals, prayers and “divine” services. You come to him when you are looking for a connection or need a break from the subject matter. Or leadership on a spiritual level.

f) Pure presence

And then there are the healers who don’t work specifically, but make a difference purely through their presence. These are the people who can completely change the dynamics of a group just by turning up.

To the positive or also to the seemingly negative. Sometimes these people also cause old structures to break down and entire teams or even companies to fall apart. In order to be able to emerge anew and better afterwards.

However, such a healer is aware of his ability and can consciously control it. If you recognize yourself here, but can’t consciously control it, then get in touch with me.

g) Seer

Every healer is also clairvoyant or clairsentient. But for some, this ability is paramount. They see things and especially connections long before others see them. It often looks as if these people can see into the future. In a way, they can too.

But not by somehow reading a predetermined future, because our future is created every second from our decisions. No, they simply absorb much more information about the current situation and they recognize connections that other people do not.

Not only on a material level, but above all on a spiritual level, from which the material arises. And so they see developments earlier than the rest of us.

How do you recognize who you are?

That is the difficult question. Difficult, because hardly anyone in our society tells you that. If you’re lucky, you have parents who thought about what they wanted you to become when you were a child. They may have observed your talents and made sure you got into the right school.

This may not be a bad approach on a material level, but if you are a healer, it has brought you absolutely nothing. On the contrary, you probably felt out of place despite or perhaps because of your parents’ efforts.

If you didn’t have parents who took care of you, that was even more the case. Unless you happened to have a healer in your circle of relatives who took you under their wing and was allowed to do so without incurring the jealousy of parents or the dislike of teachers, no one will have recognized where your abilities really lie.

Maybe they even misinterpreted them and accused you of being too “dreamy”, of not being able to do anything or of ending up on the street later on if you don’t know the binomial formulas by heart or what an accusative is …

Or your environment was even unconsciously afraid of you, which is not at all uncommon. Because you probably have them all figured out down to the depths of their souls. You were not aware of this and neither were they. But they felt it and it scared them.

To cut a long story short: no one will have recognized that you have healing, psychic, spiritual abilities and certainly no one has promoted this. And then you buried it deeper and deeper because you had to work and now you’re sitting there and don’t know what to do.

In your job, which is completely wrong for you and full of energy that you can’t get into the world. You won’t get anywhere on your own, because the conditioning of your previous life works well and is firmly in place.

But there are ways out

The way

Of course, there is no such thing as “the way”. Every path is different and you will go your own way, a path that no one has gone before you in this form. But there are steps that are similar.

a) Being recognized

The first important step is often for someone from the outside to recognize who you are. If you’ve found your way to me, you’ve already guessed it. But do you dare to believe yourself? At this point, it can be enormously helpful if a shaman sees you and tells you that you are right with your hunch

b) Reconnection

Then it’s about working with you to ensure that you can reconnect with Mother Earth, Father Sky and everything in between. This can be done through chakra work, rituals or other approaches. It depends on where you stand.

c) Conditioning and blockages

The next step is to track down and release all the old patterns of thought and behavior, all the conditioning, beliefs and blockages, layer by layer. Not just the ones from your current life. But also those that you have inherited from your ancestors without knowing it.

This can go many generations deep, at least eight, sometimes even more.

d) Recognize new paths

When the old dissolves, there is room for the new. You will now realize what you are made of. At first only diffuse, without knowing what you’re going to do with it. But that’s not the point yet. It’s about getting to know your strength.

Find out what kind of healer you are. It’s about sensing. This phase is often accompanied by particularly strong shocks in the environment. Because you develop out of your environment. Not everyone will be able or want to follow you.

Previous friends leave, new ones come. Maybe your job is changing or you’re relocating. You start to think in new ways and see paths that you didn’t see before

e) Learning techniques

Now you will begin to learn working techniques with which you can bring your very own healing power into the world. These can be basic techniques such as Reiki, working with cards or performing rituals. Or you can train as a healer or go on a world tour to find your “tribe”, your roots.

f) Finding your own way and becoming visible

You will gradually develop your own techniques and offer them. Of course, not necessarily in the sense of marketing and having your own company. There are many healers who continue to be employees, quite a few even in senior positions.

But they are all visible, so they don’t hide themselves and their abilities. They no longer deny themselves, they let their energy flow. Not everyone likes it, but at this point you are already free enough not to have to please everyone. That is no longer in your nature.

g) Founding a company and going into abundance

Some healers start their own business, like I did, and go into (financial) abundance. And no, that is not a contradiction, you are welcome to bury this fairy tale of the noble but destitute savage in the jungle who lives off donations. That’s just an excuse to keep your own strength under wraps.

A successful healer is not poor, because he can and does transform energy into matter.

How that fits together

Now you might be wondering how you are supposed to integrate this into your life? Especially if you have a family, small children who need you, or a company that depends on you or a job that you want to keep. Or a partner who can’t and doesn’t want to do anything with spiritual things.

How is that supposed to work? The “how” will become clear as you progress, but I can confirm that it is possible. Look at me. I don’t live outside of society either, I also have children and an everyday life that takes little account of spiritual matters.

However, this requires work on yourself and the will to go your own way. Then your environment will follow. At least the part that cares about you. But what do you want with those who have no interest in you anyway?

What you need to do

Now comes this ominous “must”. You’ve already done enough in your life, don’t you think? That’s right. It’s also about a different kind of having to. Not one that someone else imposes on you so that you do what they want you to do. It’s the “must” that comes out of yourself so that you finally feel better.

It is about a logical sequence of actions. No one else is forcing you to follow the path of the healer. It is your own energy that is inside you and wants to get out. But if you take this path voluntarily, then you have to go down it. But then you walk it for yourself.

That means an investment. An investment of time, life energy and also money, because without outside help it is difficult or hardly possible. I have invested decades of my life and a considerable amount of money in my development.

Without this, I would now be standing in Munich, in the laboratory of the public utility company, analyzing water samples … I would say that however high the investment was, it was more than worth it – also and especially financially – and it will never stop being worth it.

What you have to do first and foremost: make a decision. Go your own way or keep messing around. But this “must” is always up to you.

What I can do

I have developed a package for steps a) to d), because experience has shown that although the path is different for each person, the time and energy frame remains similar. For more information see: Deeper Mind Empowerment

This is followed by e), f) and g) that I can also help you with. With the abundance package, for example, you can move further up the ladder. Or when learning shamanic techniques. From a distance or – if you are keen to travel – in person at my place. Wherever I happen to be.

If you have any questions, please send me an email. NOW, not sometime later …

What are you waiting for?

Drum / shaman drum / frame drum

The drum is probably the best-known shamans tool. Hardly anyone who can relate to the term shaman doesn’t have a drum in the back of their mind.

And indeed, the drum is a very important companion of a shaman. She helps him to go into a trance and on a shamanic journey to the other world.

Although a drum is not absolutely necessary, a shaman can also connect with the spiritual world without any aids. But it helps him, creates a defined framework and also involves his clients in the work.

And depending on the cultural background, drumming is also expected of him, so that his work can only be accepted if he fulfills this expectation. Imagine a Catholic service where the priest leaves out half of it … the visitors would reject his work.

How such a drum should be constructed varies greatly from culture to culture. The more traditional the shaman is, the more he has to consider. Some shamanic cultures, for example, demand that they be made from a sacred tree in accordance with a variety of rituals that are passed down from generation to generation.

Whereas the modern European shaman is allowed to go much more by what he experiences directly from the spiritual world.

Because in this country we hardly have a continuous tradition that we have to strictly follow.

This explains the many different approaches to the shaman drum and shamanism in general.

Playing style

The shaman drum is usually struck with a drumstick, more rarely with the bare hand. And in a constant rhythm that creates a light trance over time.

This constant rhythm is at a frequency between 4 and 8 Hz. This frequency amplifies the theta waves that can be measured in the brain in this state.

These states have already been scientifically investigated several times, admittedly only in relation to measurable physical sensations and phenomena, but still.

The shaman can use his drum not only to put himself into a light trance, but also into complete ecstasy, depending on the culture in which he works and what is expected of him.

The shaman does not really “play” the drum, but rather surrenders to the drum and the Otherworld, or works together with the drum. The exact frequency of the drumming can never be determined beforehand and the rhythm, pitch and volume can vary during the drumming without the shaman consciously influencing this.

How do I get a shaman drum?

Opinions differ on this question and the answers can sometimes be extreme.

Some would love to go into the forest, cut down the tree for the wood, then kill a deer with their bare hands, strip it and work on the skin.

Then cut up the tree with axes, build a frame from the full wood and cover it naked, facing east, with the skin on a hollow path at midnight. Sing sacred songs and then only use the drum in sacred moments.

Others say: “just buy one from Amazon”.

The truth lies somewhere in between and has to be found out by everyone who wants a drum. Following your own instincts is certainly a good approach.

If you feel like it, you can build one yourself. There are various instructions online as well as seminars and courses. I myself regularly offer a drum building course, see: Drum building seminar

If you don’t feel like building one yourself, just buy one. Whether it’s a drum from a flea market or one built by a shaman is up to you. Here you can find the drums I have built and are for sale: Drums & Rattles

Frame drum

The drums used by shamans are usually frame drums, i.e. drums with flat frames that are covered on one side, or more rarely on both sides, with drum skin, i.e. an untanned animal skin.

In musical circles, the distinction between frame drum and cylinder drum is even defined in the so-called Hornbostel-Sachs system. This states that the height of the frame of a frame drum may not exceed the head radius. Everything above this results in a cylinder drum.

However, this does not really matter for the shaman, as the frame height of most shaman drums is well below this limit.

The frame does not necessarily have to be round, it can take on any shape that is technically feasible. The most common shape is probably the circle, closely followed by polygons with different numbers of corners.

Irregularly shaped frames are also known, for example those made from grown tree slices. Rare and therefore very exclusive are triangular frame drums that produce a very special sound

Frame drums are struck either with a mallet or by hand. The types of mallets vary greatly, from leather, felt and cork to combinations of these, everything is conceivable that produces a good sound.

Sometimes additional cymbals, bells, jingles or metal rings are attached to or in the frame, which resonate with the drums and make additional noises.

The frame drum is probably one of the oldest drum types of all, with depictions from Mesopotamia dating back to around 3000 B.C. These depictions show women holding frame drums strung on both sides in front of them. Perhaps they are also combinations of drum and rattle.

They are almost certainly not musical instruments but ritual objects.

But this type of drum probably made the rounds quite quickly and can be found as shaman drums in northern Europe, especially in Lapland and throughout Asia, mainly in Mongolia.

It is just as common in North and South America, frame drums are known among the Indians and the Spanish and Portuguese conquistadors brought them to South America.

They are also known in the Orient. Here, however, it is more of a musical instrument that is struck with the fingers. This design has also been known in Italy for a long time. It even appears in the Old Testament of the Christian Bible.

Types

The construction of a frame drum is very simple. A (usually) dehaired but not tanned animal skin is stretched over a frame, which is usually made of wood but can also be made of plastic or metal.

In the simplest case, the tension is created by drying the skin. If an untanned animal hide gets wet, it expands. If you stretch them wet over the frame and leave them to dry, the tension will be created automatically.

Most shaman drums are built in this way, as they do not require any major technical gimmicks, metal parts or even plastic.

The disadvantage is that these drums are sensitive to moisture. If the humidity is too high or if it gets wet, the tension drops and the drum sound becomes deeper, or it no longer sounds at all because the tension is gone.

Then it has to be dried again by placing it in the sun, keeping it in the living room at home or holding it by the fire. Shamans even appreciate these qualities, because a drum is not a “dead” object but a living being that is not always available at all times.

For musical purposes, frame drums are fitted with tuning screws with which the tension of the drum skin can be adjusted. This means they can be matched to other instruments. Tunable drums can of course also be used for shamanic purposes.

Recently, there have also been designs with inserted bicycle tubes that stretch the skin via pumped-in air pressure. Whether you want to work shamanically with a drum that has a rubber tube inside it is up to you.

Animal suffering

Another “trend” is plastic diaphragms, which have long been used in drums. These drums are often offered as “vegan” drums. The argument is then that you don’t want to have a drum for which an animal has died.

However, this is hardly a valid argument, as the goat, calf, deer, reindeer etc. skins used for shaman drums all come from animals that were slaughtered for food and certainly not to make a drum.

The skins are often downright “waste products” that are even thrown away.

In itself, everyone has to decide for themselves, shamanic journeying is also possible with a plastic drum.

Imagine you are an Ikea shelf. You are produced in a factory, many parts belong to you and at the end of this production line all your parts come together. Some of them go into a plastic bag, others are practically stacked and then everything goes into a box.

You walk into the store and someone ends up buying you and taking you home. You are already looking forward to your life, because you are a really beautiful shelf. And well thought out.

There you are unpacked and … oh shock … the first thing your buyer does is throw away the instructions. He has bought a shelf, but he actually needs a table. And so he kind of nails you down.

In the end, there really is something like a table. Not a perfect table, because your pieces were supposed to become a shelf. But a table that works. It has a plate on top and is reasonably stable. And so from now on you will be used as a table. The parts you have not installed are somewhere in the crawling box.

It doesn’t look really good and it’s not really very stable either. At some point you start to wobble. A few strips and screws from the DIY store will keep you stable for a while, but in the end you will collapse.

That’s not what you had in mind, is it? Where are the parts that were not installed? Where is the shelf? Now there’s just a pile of boards.

Who are you and if so how many … ?

Are you already living or are you just functioning as is expected of you, but without really knowing why? Do you recognize yourself on our Ikea shelf? Do you sometimes feel like you’ve been put together wrong? As if there are still parts that you can’t see because they’re in some drawer? Are you beginning to realize that this is not healthy and want to change it? Or have you already stopped working and are looking for a way out? Is perhaps only the path still unclear?

Or is the path clear, but something is still standing in the way, something is still hanging? The path may not quite work yet. Something is still wrong somewhere, you can’t find the right approach?

Do you lack the money to make a change or the time or both? Are you a single parent and can’t see any way forward? Are you stuck in a situation that seems hopeless, but you can’t stay in it?

No matter …

Regardless of whether it’s professional or private – you can’t really separate the two anyway – the proverbial devil is often in the detail.

In our society, no one has taught us how to find our way. On the contrary, we are given a few paths and then we have to follow them. Whether we like it or not. After all, we’ve always done it and life is not a pony farm. Who doesn’t know these sayings?

The life task

Does THE one task in life even exist? From a spiritual point of view, we do not incarnate here in this world entirely by chance. We arrive here with a specific set of topics, with a bundle of gifts and skills and also tasks.

A bit like an IKEA shelf, unfortunately without instructions. Basically with everything we need, but no one tells us how it all fits together. Often it doesn’t seem to fit, then we are made to fit by life.

Even if five screws, three boards and a hinge are left over and end up in the drawer. You will somehow function in this way, but it will break you.

At least you won’t be happy with it. You can only do this if you build yourself the way you created yourself. This is the only way you can do what you have come to do in this life and the only way you can be happy.

The solution

As always, the solution lies with you, even if you didn’t cause the problem. But who do you want to change, apart from yourself? This also has advantages, because if the solution lies with you, no one can stop you from bringing it to life.

Admittedly, when you’re in a situation like this, you have the problem that you can’t even name a lot of the things that seem to be missing. Because you may have been missing it since your earliest childhood. Some people seem to arrive here incomplete because they have already split off parts of themselves before they were born. Often due to ancestral themes.

That’s where I come in, because I can see you. And completely. I not only see you as you are now, I also see the parts you have in the drawer without knowing about them. They’re not gone, you’re not living them because you don’t know them.

I can’t tell you what your life path looks like because you always create it yourself anyway. But I can help you find the seemingly missing parts and integrate them. You will become complete and that will change your whole world.

What are you waiting for?

Feel free to write to me about where you are right now, even if you can’t find the words or don’t know where to go.

Here is a video on the subject on my YouTube channel: https://youtu.be/47uc8QLq5Hk

Shamanic journey

The shaman understands a shamanic journey as a conscious connection with the spiritual world and its entities, such as spirit helpers or nature beings.

An experienced shaman does not necessarily need this framework because he can also connect with the spiritual world naturally and without great effort at any time. However, such a framework is particularly useful and helpful for more complex issues or when working with clients.

How such a journey is organized varies greatly. A very popular tool is the shaman drum, a specific type of frame drum. It puts the shaman and the client into a light trance state, which makes it easier to block out the material world and concentrate fully on the spiritual level.

The drum is struck in a steady hypnotic rhythm that often corresponds to the heart rate of the person, but does not necessarily have to do so. The drum rhythm varies from user to user and from case to case.

Various types of rattles or other percussion instruments are also common aids. The only important thing is the constant rhythm to promote the trance state.

In the process, everyday life and the material world are partially faded out up to full trance, in which the shaman is almost exclusively in the other world. Although this is rarely practiced, because as a shaman it is about connecting both worlds and not about leaving one of them.

The procedure

The beginning of a shamanic journey is often a small ritual, for example, the cardinal points are invoked, Mother Earth or the heavens, the sacred space is opened, the personal spirit helpers are called and, if necessary, the ancestors.

This initial ritual serves to generate an energetic protection under which it is possible to work and it serves to focus the shaman and the client completely on the goal of the journey.

After this ritual, this small ceremony, the drumming or rattling begins for the time it takes to realize the intention in the spiritual world. This can be a few minutes or many hours.

At the same time, the shaman always maintains contact with the material world, he does not leave this world completely. Which is why he can never “forget” the way back, he cannot get lost in the spiritual world.

As a layperson, it makes sense to be accompanied on your first shamanic journeys. You can’t “get stuck”, as some horror stories would have you believe. But the first few trips in particular can also bring up frightening or at least unsettling images.

It is good to have an experienced shaman there to help process the experience afterwards.

If you would like to learn shamanic journeying, take a look at my beginners’ seminar. This is precisely to give you the confidence you need to continue working on your own.

Sacred space / shelter

The shaman understands the sacred space as a spiritual shelter, an energetic framework in which his shamanic work can take place.

There are several reasons why the sacred space makes sense. First of all, he ensures that the shamanic work takes place in a protected environment. External influences are muted, except for those that are explicitly included in the work.

You can compare it to closing your own office door so that you can make a phone call in peace. It also works with the door open, but then you are constantly disturbed.

But it is not only about protection, the shaman also asks for the help of his spirits and, if necessary, the local spirits or the spirits of the client.

The opening ritual sets a clear starting point for the shamanic work and the closing ritual ends it again, both at a clear point in time.

When will the sacred space be opened

In principle, the sacred space is opened before any kind of shamanic work. Whether working with clients or alone and whether the shaman works in his practice or in other places.

It is opened before each job and closed again afterwards. However, this does not have to happen after every client in the practice. The Sacred Space can remain open until the day’s work is done.

How the sacred space is set up

There is no definitive recipe for this, because the way it is done was and is different in all cultures. A Mongolian shaman will have different rituals for this than a Peruvian shaman, and a Peruvian shaman will have different rituals than a German shaman.

One basic possibility, for example, is to invoke the cardinal points plus Mother Earth and Father Sky. Either in words or in prayers or in songs or simply in silent prayer.

The many elements of fire, earth, water and air are often called upon. You can ask your spirit helpers and power animals for help and guidance, the ancestors, helpful nature beings and, if necessary, the spirits of the client.

Protection is requested, but also the necessary energy for the work. Active help is requested and thanks are expressed.

You can turn to the cardinal points and smoke something, for example. Depending on the application, it doesn’t necessarily have to be a ritual. An experienced shaman can set up a sacred space within seconds without an outsider noticing.

Or he makes a half-hour ritual out of it, if that seems advisable and/or the client possibly expects and needs it.

Here too, the actual process takes place on a mental level and requires neither time nor space, so it does not necessarily have to be visible.

The closing of the sacred space at the end of the work often takes place in the reverse order to the opening. However, this does not necessarily have to be the case and depends on the user and the application.

Would you like to learn how it works in practice and try it out for yourself? Then let us accompany you.

Is a highway shamanic?

But why am I writing about highways and long songs now? It’s not about the song, but actually about the highway, at least metaphorically. I’ve just been to Gran Canaria and drove from Maspalomas on the highway to Telde. Three lanes, reasonably bearable traffic.

And as is the case when driving on the highway, I thought about this and that. I’ve driven a lot of highways in my life, most of them in Germany, of course, because that’s where I’ve spent most of my time.

It’s exciting to see the different types of riders there are and, depending on my mood, I’ve been able to recognize almost all of them. Including the tailgater, I have to admit, even though I don’t like him at all, I personally find that quite rude. I haven’t done that often either. Really not.

Sometimes I was fast, then slow again. Sometimes comfortably in the right lane, no matter how slow I was going, sometimes at over 200 km/h in the left lane, leaving (almost) everyone behind me.

There are those who always stay on the right, others are always on the left, some sneak in the middle lane, others are sometimes on the right and sometimes on the left and others somewhere in between. In Mexico, for example. You wouldn’t believe how many lanes a three-lane Mexican highway can have …

Sometimes …

Sometimes you don’t want to leave the right-hand lane at all. Because it bobs along so comfortably and you don’t have to be so careful behind the truck at 80 km/h. And because as soon as you pull to the left, you often become the target of “speeders”, who don’t find it funny when they come roaring along at 200 km/h and you pull out at 80.

You’ll attract hatred, obstruct someone and have to endure the headlights.

Of course, you then accelerate and maybe even enough to overtake the tailgater, which is probably quite embarrassing for him. That’s going to get you a hater’s retort, but who cares if it comes from far behind?

But first you have to overcome the challenge of pulling out to the left. To put up with disturbing someone. To attract criticism. To stand out. Perhaps even negative. Phew, it’s better to stay to the right. Even if it might only go on at 60 or even less. But before you face the criticism of others, it’s better not to say anything.

Until you can’t go any further and you’re either in the right-hand lane or you get over yourself. Not easy at all. Especially when you are already stationary and traffic is still flowing to your left. How are you supposed to get out then? No one ever lets you in anyway. All rude show-offs. All of them!

What have I really been thinking about?

Not about highways and lanes, but about life and how to act in it. Or formulated as a question: Which lane are you driving in?

Are you on the far right, out of sheer comfort or fear? Or because you think you can’t do any more? Watching everyone pass you by? Do you know that they all arrive long before you get anywhere? Do you also prefer to stop completely on the right rather than pulling out to the left and accelerating?

Because you might be jostled or honked at from behind? Because you might have to push your way out. Because then you become visible and naturally have to step on the gas? Because there is no one on the left to invite you and you have to take your own place?

And you don’t like that? Taking what you need for yourself? Yes, who else is going to give you that? Is someone coming to serve you? Not on the highway and not in life either.

Again and again

I hear this from time to time from people who actually want to, but don’t dare to be able to. They actually know where they want to go, they have the skills, but they don’t dare to change lanes.

It’s better to stay right behind the truck, the boss, the parents, the partner, all the excuses, even if you can’t go any further at some point.

Are left-hand drivers also the absolute evil for you? With their fat show-off cars and the arrogance of wanting to drive faster than others? Is there perhaps a bit of envy because you would also like to overtake?

Or do you think you can’t go any faster? Maybe because your whole family has always been on the right track? Don’t you want to be the first to drop out? Or have you heard about Uncle Willi, who tried that once and then failed and now nobody dares to do anything because nobody likes to be like Willi?

Are you waiting for the long gap on the left where you can pull out without having to squeeze in? Are you perhaps waiting for the big invitation?

The metaphor

I think the highway metaphor is pretty apt. Because the question in life is also: do you stay to the right, take what you are given and sneak along? Or do you change lanes and drive at your own pace, even at the risk of being much faster than everyone else?

You can, because life doesn’t just have two or three tracks, it has an infinite number, including one for you. Who knows YOUR pace. If you always stay to the right, you’ll never find them.

And you are sitting in a car that is definitely faster than 80 km/h for the right-hand lane. And after all, a highway doesn’t just have lanes, but also exits and parking spaces. Ever thought of that? You can drive out at any time, entirely because you are heading for a worthwhile destination next to the highway. Or temporarily, because you’re getting a coffee or simply closing your eyes for a moment. And then you get back on and choose your lane.

You will just have to be active. Yes, that “have to” again. Nobody is forcing you to change your life. You can stay to the right or drive into the ditch and give up. Nobody is forcing you to do anything. You can also continue to make excuses as to why this is not possible.

No problem, nobody will judge you for it, and I certainly won’t. But IF you decide to change your life for the better, THEN you have to do something. And that is to set the blinker and change lanes. And then step on the gas. And THAT is where I can help you.