Ideally, you should live your dream instead of dreaming your life. Ideally, you are YOU, with all your potential, with all your energy, with everything you have brought into this life. But what is ideal nowadays … ?

A story

Let me tell you a story. It’s actually two stories about two people who couldn’t have been more different. They both really existed, these stories are not made up.

Let’s call them Klaus and Frank, the names are made up, you’ll find out why below. Let’s start with Klaus.

Klaus

Even as a child, Klaus was more of a dreamer. Very sensitive, often misunderstood and not really fitting into the system. But he got through it well, did what he was supposed to do and was even more or less successful at school. His parents were also behind it, making sure that he studied and did his homework.

He wasn’t too interested in what was taught at school, but his grades were good and he quickly got a good apprenticeship. At the municipal utilities. It’s a secure job, public service, you can’t go wrong.

Not really a dream job, but a training position. And that was important, his parents assured him. Even when he wanted to drop out of his apprenticeship because the job wasn’t really for him, they assured him of this and of course he listened to them. No, you can’t drop out of an apprenticeship.

So he went through with it and then even made a career in another company. Family, children, car, apartment, the whole program, he managed it well. Somehow. It worked. A little hobby for after work.

Happy? Well, “passt scho”, as the Bavarian says. No more, but also no less.

Frank

Frank was completely different. He was always an adventurer, even as a child. Tried everything, had lots of friends and was at the forefront of every nonsense. He only listened to his parents sporadically at best, there was so much to discover in the world.

I went through school like nothing, right up to the Abitur. After that he didn’t study something boring, but founded a company, ignored all the doubters and naggers and made it big with the company, earned millions and had a lot of fun.

He was just as good with money as he was with people. Investing, speculating, shares, real estate etc… no problem at all. Because Frank could also think hard and delve into such topics.

Frank just did his thing and he was happy with it. And if not, then he simply changed something. Nobody tried to stop him.

He also no longer lived in Germany, at least not permanently and certainly not in winter. Caribbean, Asia, America, he went wherever he wanted to go. Sailing boat, own airplane, big car, whatever. He was able to get it and if not, he always knew how he could manage it.

He also packed his family and children in with him, and that went just as smoothly as everything else. He just did something, was active, solved problems when they arose. Not a problem for him.

Why am I telling you this?

But why am I telling you this? I have written about myself. Yes, both times. I am Klaus AND Frank. Sounds strange? It is not at all. Klaus was me in “real” life and Frank was me in my dream world.

Both were and are real, including the dream world. But this dream world existed in a different reality, on a different level. Now you could say, why didn’t you make the dream world come true back then?

Yes, good question. Simple answer: Because there was no connection. Sure, I had this dream world and I also knew that there were people who lived this dream world for real. I even knew some.

But that one link that would have enabled me to make the dream world a reality was somehow not there. Like a missing part in a machine that was not supplied. A missing screw in the Ikea shelf, without which you can’t assemble it. And which you don’t have delivered to you because the idea is somehow missing.

The idea that the dream world could be realized was not even there. Let alone a path. The possibility of making the dream world real did not exist in my life at that time. Missing screw. Was not delivered. Point.

The problem

Many people are at this or a similar point. They live a “real” life and it works. For some, it even works very well – job, house, car, family and so on – and is not directly terrible.

But in the background there is another level with life as it should be. This life is also real, but on a completely different level.

Some people know this world in great detail, as I did back then. Others just have a feeling that there is still something there. If … yes, if there wasn’t this one piece missing. This link that would make the dream world realizable in reality.

The big thing is not even that current life is dramatically bad. No, that works. Somehow. It works and if you get hit on the head again, then you swallow it. It does go on somehow.

The pressure is never so great that you are completely on the ground. It’s more of a latent suffering, with the feeling that there must still be something there … but how to get there? Besides, everything is actually fine somehow. And with something to lose, do you really want to risk a big change? What if it goes wrong … ?

Well, what would Frank have said?

All by itself?

No, certainly not that. Nothing moves on its own. You must … yes, quite deliberately, I write “you must” here. The spiritual scene likes to tell you that you don’t have to do anything, that you can do everything and that it’s enough if you manifest it, then it will come. If you just go into love enough and do everything with ease …

No, big misunderstanding. Sure, if your desire is to become a millionaire, you can sit on the couch and manifest your millions, that’s actually a pretty good idea to start with. But after that, they won’t just fly into your account, you’ll see opportunities to earn them.

And yes, you have to. You have to take chances, you have to work, you have to create, you have to go out and and and … but you will see that this is a completely different “have to” than before. Because it leads you to yourself and your life.

I was allowed (sic!) to learn that. Sometimes the painful way. No dream is born from sitting around. But from active action. And that includes the whole journey, from recognizing that your dreams can become real, to working on the blockages that seem to prevent this, to taking concrete steps, to accepting the harvest.

Now I’m Klaus AND Frank and that’s pretty cool.

Alone or with help

You can accept help in this way or not. I had a lot of help, even if it wasn’t structured. I practically fought my way from station to station. A lot of trial and even more error. But it was worth it, now I have realized a lot of my dreams from back then. Maybe not everything, but some dreams have also faded or changed. And I still have some ahead of me, I’m still in the middle of my journey.

If you like, I can accompany you. Because I know the path well, after all, I have walked it. I have developed processes that can help you to do the same. Faster and more efficient than I was back then. And that’s what I do every day with my clients.

There are people who are “small employees” and suddenly they feel that they can actually get out of it. Suddenly they see that there are ways to generate 50,000 or 100,000 or even more a month as an entrepreneur. Suddenly you can not only feel it but also put it into practice. Very real. And that’s no hocus-pocus, others can do it too.

Or others see ways out of an oppressive family situation. Ways out of relationships with partners or parents that are characterized by narcissistic or other patterns of abuse or by seemingly unsolvable dependencies.

Or they see that they don’t have to live in a certain country, a certain city or a certain apartment. That what they have been dreaming of all their lives can really be realized. Because it might actually be better for them somewhere else. Or where they are, just implemented differently.

There are people who suddenly find access to their dreams and find ways to make them real. There are some really blatant things in there. And the great thing is: if you have a clear goal and can see the way, you’re already halfway there. Then you can manage the rest.

If not?

If you don’t want help right now, go on alone, that’s okay too. But GO, for heaven’s sake. Don’t sit around dreaming, go out and put it into practice. What could happen, in the worst case scenario you’ll be happy!

You can control your financial reality with your energy alone!

There is currently a big issue for all people who have built something up over the last few decades. Or who bear responsibility for the life’s work of their ancestors. Asset protection in a whole new dimension.

Cold feet

Entrepreneurs, investors or “just” ordinary people who have saved up a cushion and then invested cleverly are starting to get cold feet.

All these people are coming to the realization that things are happening in Europe and the USA that are worth a closer look. Because they do not correspond to any “normal” dimension, because they seem to be completely new.

Anyone with a little knowledge of economic relationships will realize that the major currencies are no longer doing so well. The money supply inflates, and inflation logically follows on its heels. The economy is weakening, commodities that were thought to be safe are suddenly in short supply and it is not entirely clear why.

The media seem to have resorted to spreading more and more propaganda instead of providing facts – all media, from TV to newspapers to the Internet. Fear arises and is also deliberately stirred up.

At the same time, the gap between rich and poor is widening and politically the center is getting smaller and smaller, while the right and left are getting bigger and bigger. Opportunities and prosperity are increasingly unequally distributed and the number of people who are demanding and asking for more and more is growing alarmingly fast. Politicians seem at a loss, and voting no longer promises a solution.

In short, the air is getting thinner for the wealthy and people are thinking about how to keep their hard-earned assets safe. Somehow it all seems new and quite frightening. At least none of us has ever experienced anything like it.

The story

Anyone who studies history or reads books such as Ray Dalio’s “World Order in Transition: The Rise and Fall of Nations” (highly recommended, by the way) will slowly realize that it is not so easy to see through this situation.

What we are heading towards right now is not a simple financial crisis or a normal downturn, as they occur again and again at manageable intervals and can be sat out. No, what we are currently experiencing is the final phase of two large economic areas on which we depend. This also happens again and again, but at such great intervals that hardly anyone ever experiences two such phases.

And even if these phases are always repeated, they are never quite the same. The principle is always the same, but the details are very different.

Under no circumstances

There are two things you should never do in such a phase:

Get scared. Is everything collapsing? A nuclear war is coming? We are all going to die? Yes, possibly, at least we will all die. At some point. Mostly at the end of our lives. But fear is still a very bad advisor, because when it leads you, everything goes haywire.

Bury your head in the sand. That won’t work either, because if the situation changes dramatically, you should react and adapt. Simply doing nothing and hoping is just as stupid as running around in circles in fear.

So take a deep breath!

So far

Earning money, increasing it and keeping it has never been easy. It has always taken hard work, a lot of knowledge and a little bit of luck. Even in times of clear upswing, you had to use your hands and your mind to climb.

But there were guidelines and predictable framework conditions. Anyone who invested in German real estate a few decades ago had to be extremely stupid not to make a profit or even lose everything in the long term.

It was also possible to achieve something with shares and other forms of investment at a reasonable risk. With your own company anyway. Even as a saver you could achieve something. And many people have followed this path and are now enjoying their well-earned prosperity.

And now?

But now everything is shaky, not even the usual currency is stable. Maybe you’ve already retired and wanted to enjoy what you’ve built up. And now you are being forced to become active again. And perhaps much more actively than you would like, because everything, really everything, that you thought was certain is suddenly no longer certain.

Look at the history of the last thousand years. What can happen when large economic areas disappear and have to make way for others? Practically everything. Everything is possible, from peaceful restructuring to world war, and nobody can predict what exactly will happen and what will follow. Throughout history, not even the gold buried in the garden has always been completely safe. Real estate (including the garden with the gold), shares and companies certainly not. But remember: don’t succumb to fear!

Now you’re sitting there and instead of resting peacefully, you have to figure out how to get your stuff to safety. And maybe your family as well. At worst, they only know boom phases, vote green and have no idea what lies ahead.

But even if you inherited your assets rather than earning them yourself, you still have a problem. Because even then you have to secure it and, if you’re unlucky, you still have the oppressive feeling on the back of your neck that hopefully you won’t be the one to mess up the family fortune.

The pressure can be enormous, there’s a huge responsibility involved and it can weigh you down like a ton. It’s difficult to make confident decisions with such a weight. It’s tempting to just sit there, but that will definitely ruin you. Because no matter how an economic area collapses, those who are left behind end up with nothing.

What I cannot do

I can’t tell you what will happen next either. Neither economically nor politically. I’m just as much in the dark as you are. To be honest, I even have similar problems, because I too have to think about how to get my assets through these wild times.

And my family, which is even more important than the assets. That’s one of the reasons why we went traveling two years ago, in search of places that were better for us. Was that the right thing to do? I have no idea. Maybe I’m leading my family straight to ruin. We’ll be smarter afterwards.

In short. I can’t tell you what to do, nobody can at the moment.

What I can do

But what I can do is accompany you on the path to your full strength. A state in which you can make quick and tough decisions at any time without panicking and without falling prey to the omnipresent fear-mongering.

Without getting into eternal thought spirals with yourself or with long-dead ancestors. Without this fear of failing spectacularly. Without the feeling that everyone is watching you until you finally make mistakes when you break new ground.

You are at your full strength when you walk through even the biggest shit upright. If you are able to get up again as often as you like and carry on. In your full strength, you don’t have this weight of tons on your shoulders.

You are at your full strength when it no longer matters whether the world is stable or unstable, because you can rely 100% on not panicking at any time, but acting with confidence.

In your full strength, you will make the best possible decision for you at all times and you will always find a solution that is largely independent of the behavior of others.

In your full power, you can direct your (financial) reality through your energy alone!

Will that be enough to get through the times ahead? I can’t tell you that, but your chances are infinitely higher in your full strength than slumped, small and desperate.

How do we do that?

What depresses and pulls you down is not the situation itself. There is no real danger of losing everything.

It is the fear of fear. It’s that nasty little gnome in your neck that calls you a failure when you mess up. It is the grinning faces of your ancestors or your family that haunt your thoughts. It is the echo of your parents, whom you perhaps couldn’t please back then or who didn’t see you as you really are.

It’s these stomach pains that plague you, this nagging insecurity, this lack of stability.

It may have been there before, but you never noticed it because you could do something about it. There were frameworks, guidelines, recommendations and, if necessary, you did what everyone else did. It has worked often enough.

But that’s all gone now. There is no more support, there is only you. You are now that little girl or boy again who is separated from her parents for the first time and suddenly has to cope on her own. That was a challenge when you were a child and it is a challenge now. Let’s make sure that you now look like an adult and not unconsciously like a child again.

You are now suddenly once again the plaything of your ancestors’ behavioral patterns, who had to make completely different decisions in completely different times. Unfortunately, you have inherited their solutions and they are trying to overlay your own solutions. Until you dissolve them.

You are standing there alone now and really no one in this world can tell you what will happen next. Nobody. You’re the only one standing there and you have to do something now.

A crazy idea, isn’t it?

Being in your power means still being able to stand securely even when you are completely alone. To still be safe even when everything is falling apart. And keep going, even if you can’t see any way at all. And you can even take your family with you if you need to. You will still be standing afterwards when the masses are lying on the ground. And it will, because everyone will never take personal responsibility.

Historically, it has always been the minority, because this path requires a bit of work on yourself. Not everyone likes that and that’s why not everyone can ever save their assets. You can do it, it’s no coincidence that you’ve read this article to the end.

That means being in your full power and if you want, I will accompany you there. It can be done, even if it’s not always easy. But let’s be honest, if you were the type for easy routes, you wouldn’t have a fortune to secure right now …

You are to blame! … Or not?

Even if we are not quite sure what is happening, we usually know directly who or what is to blame. When our money is no longer enough to heat our homes, we know it’s the fault of the politicians and the lousy job.

And because demonstrating hasn’t worked so far, because the stupid politicians don’t understand that they are stupid, we are annoyed. Also about the boss, who should slowly understand what we do. But he prefers to pocket the money himself. What an ass.

The tax office is also to blame, by the way, and the health insurance company. And the media anyway, with their lies. The general economic situation is also to blame and the capitalists who got us there. Or was it the socialists? Or the Nazis? No matter. Guilt.

And when some shaman comes along and talks about personal responsibility and how I can step out of my role as a victim, then he’s probably off his rocker. Everyone could create their own life the way they want. He’s out of his mind. If I am raped, am I to blame myself?

Or if there’s a landslide and I’m in a wheelchair and the exit door is stuck because the volcano is also erupting, then I’m probably to blame too? Did I manifest this myself or what? And the children starving in Africa, he probably has no idea what real life is like, he’s sitting in his Spirit Tower and I could solve my problems with his prices … ok, I get it. Let me explain:

An example

An example from my own life comes to mind. I haven’t always been a shaman, I started my career in the chemical industry. I know, it’s not shamanic at all and at the beginning it was really low in terms of salary. So much for “with prices like that I could …” I could do without. But that’s not the point.

During this time, I was responsible for quality management at a chemical distributor for several years. It was a lot about processes and, of course, the mistakes that happened from time to time.

An unloved task of a quality manager is to take care of these errors, namely all errors that occur throughout the company. So I was more or less often given so-called error logs and then I had to find out what had happened, why it had happened and – very importantly – how it could be prevented in future.

As you can guess from reading it, it was quite often about guilt. The customer makes a complaint and of course contacts the sales representative with his complaint. The sales department is angry because the error happened in the warehouse and blames the warehouse. The warehouse is angry because the error only happened because the shipping department didn’t write out the papers correctly. The shipping department is angry because the sales department has passed on unclear instructions. What the sales department vehemently rejects is that the instructions would have been crystal clear, they would have written an email. But the apprentice from the dispatch department didn’t forward it, so it’s his fault. No, he didn’t, because that wouldn’t have been his job and the warehouse could have thought along with him, because they really always make this mistake …

Do you see where this is going? Certainly not to a solution. In the end, there was indeed bitter trench warfare between the individual departments in this company. Because once an accusation is made, people hit back and in the end the situation escalates.

This eats up time, money and nerves. Above all nerves. Especially the nerves of the quality manager.

The solution

And there were indeed solutions. The case described above with the complaint was not invented, it actually happened. Several times, with the same error and, stupidly, even several times with the same customer. Some of my gray hair started back then.

If the departments had been left to their own devices, at some point they would have gone at each other with machetes and the customer would have simply bought from the competition. Well, the management knew how to prevent the former, but the solution came from a completely different direction.

Neither the sales department, nor the dispatch department, nor the warehouse, nor the trainee were “to blame” and the solution was not found there either. This lay in changing the process on which all the actions were based. A few changes to the IT system, a few new work instructions, a short training session so that everyone knew how things should work in future and the error was gone.

What do we learn from this?

It does you absolutely no good to know who is to blame. Regardless of whether someone is at fault or not, it’s always about finding the solution! And this is often not at all where someone seems to be doing something wrong.

The solution often does not lie with the people involved. In the example, the process was simply not optimal because the requirements had changed over time. In other situations, information may be missing or – and this is very common – you simply can’t see where the solution might be because you only know part of the whole.

This was not visible to those involved in the example above. This is because neither the sales department, nor the warehouse, nor the dispatch department and certainly not the trainee usually know the overall context. They all know their job and the interfaces to the others. Nothing more, because nobody can know their day-to-day business AND the big picture. That is simply asking too much.

That’s why there was someone like me back then, the quality manager. My job was not to know all the details, but to understand the entire process. And that’s how I found the solution. A solution that none of the parties involved could have found.

And what does that have to do with me?

You may be asking yourself that now. But be honest, how often do you blame someone for something? Your partner, your children, your colleagues, your boss, politics, Mercury retrograde, your ancestors or even yourself?

We humans do this all the time, we don’t even realize it anymore. Realize this and then take a step back in your mind and think about what a solution could look like.

The solutions

Of course, not everyone has the exclusive opportunity of a quality manager to simply adapt the processes. In our lives, we are often confronted with forces that simply seem overpowering.

All too often we feel completely powerless and then we can’t because … For this to happen, this and that would first have to happen, this and that person would have to realize their injustice or the masses would have to “wake up”. Besides, we are single parents, work 50 hours a week anyway and have no money for someone to help. And he only wants to sell something anyway. In short: nobody can help us! That’s right! Nothing to do!

Often we even seem to know the solution, we certainly do. We already know exactly who needs to change to make it work. The person would just have to realize that. Or we would first have to earn more money, have more vacation, more time, more something. But as long as the others keep us down …

Stop!

Can you tell? It’s like the sales department blaming the bearing, even though it wasn’t the bearing’s fault. Nothing changes this way, you’re like an engineer with building blocks.

The solution

Take another step back and look at what you can influence. Which players in this game can YOU influence without having to rely on them to change?

There is usually just one and that is YOU.

“Yes, then it’s my fault again, isn’t it”, “that was obvious” … NO! You are not. It’s not about who is to blame, but who can initiate the solution. It’s about starting where you can. And that is always with you. And yes, you can. This is often even possible without booking me. Just replace “I can’t afford that” with “How can I afford that?” … you’ll be amazed at what that alone will do.

The advantage

The big advantage is that you don’t have to wait for anyone. You don’t need permission, no one is holding you back and you can do whatever you want.

And you can get help so that you have someone who has an overview. You can hire your own quality manager. Or a shaman and coach. Someone who can look very deeply at the spiritual level and show you solutions that you didn’t even have on your radar.

Of course, you can always implement all of this yourself, but you can do it because you implement it within yourself. Because that’s where the solution is. Inside you.

Even the solution for the evil state, the evil capitalists, socialists, communists, right-wingers, left-wingers, inflation, your lousy job, your stupid boss, your narcissistic partner and so on.

The solution is always within you!

What to do?

Go out and work on yourself. And immediately. No, not just when the money is there, the business is running again, you’re in the mood. These are all hidden accusations again. Sure, you can use the qualities of time, not every action makes sense at all times.

But make sure that you use the time qualities productively and not because they are to blame for something.

Do you want to be really rich? Really? Or just a little, because you want to have a modest little house and don’t really need to be rich, just a little, maybe, if it’s no trouble and you don’t stand out?

Think big! Money & Wealth

But really right? Seriously? With a clear decision? Who is stopping you?

No, it’s not the others or the boss or the world situation that’s stopping you. Not even “the elite” or “society” but YOU! Yes, YOU do that yourself. Why is that? Stop it!

Money is a material form of life energy and the most direct one at that

Life energy?

All these obstacles are factors in your life and in most cases they are even important factors. But how have others done it? Where do all the millionaires and billionaires come from?

They inherited? No, they didn’t. Some certainly do, but most are people who have found a way to simply leave all the hindering factors behind them. These people have gone to such lengths that they seem to have achieved their goals effortlessly.

You can do that too. Effortlessly? No, certainly not. Such a path takes strength and requires a clear decision. And strength, did I mention that? It doesn’t come while you’re waiting for someone to see how valuable you are.

Finally start building yourself up and taking what you want. And don’t be distracted by all the crap that has been drummed into us from an early age and for generations. And yes, I’m talking about crap on purpose.

And again, yes, you weren’t taught all that at school. You didn’t miss that, it just didn’t appear in the material. Why?

Our medieval problem with money

We Europeans have had a problem since the Middle Ages. A serious problem. We consider money and especially wealth to be reprehensible. Until the beginning of the 16th century, Christians were even forbidden to take interest (Muslims are still forbidden to do so today). That was usury. And usury was a sin. You went to hell for that. Said the pope.

Money and wealth were only for nobles and clerics, whose position of power was ultimately God-given. Everyone else had to be poor. And God-fearing. But above all poor. Anyone who rose above this was terribly evil and had certainly conspired with the devil himself. Not even a letter of indulgence helped.

This pattern continues to have an effect today and in some of us it remains quite unchanged, because our ancestors have not processed it. Today, of course, we put forward completely different reasons: after all, we have to earn our money with “honest work”, pay a lot of taxes and we always have to help “the poor”, obey the authorities and so on … Because otherwise we are selfish, taking something away from someone and that is evil.

Behind the conscious obstacles lie unconscious levels and behind them further layers of unconscious beliefs, blockages and patterns. It’s like being caught in a multi-layered spider’s web that you can’t get out of. That you can’t even fully recognize.

And then you wonder why you can do whatever you want and still always stay at the bottom. No sooner have you fought for a small piece of the cake than someone takes it away from you.

The spider will not give up its lunch voluntarily. You stay with those who go to work every day and still don’t get anywhere, no matter how much you earn. Or those who are already self-employed but don’t get any customers. Especially for those who are always waiting for something to miraculously improve. But everything is only getting worse. Until retirement. Where it gets really bad.

It’s not because you missed the last applicant training and it’s not because you didn’t pay attention in 5th grade. This is also not due to incorrect marketing. Or the government or the evil rich who give nothing away.

But YOU. Your unconscious blockages, which you inherited from your ancestors without realizing it and without being asked. And these patterns are extremely strong because they are already extremely old. Patterns that ensure that you don’t get the idea that you are entitled to anything. That you don’t even think about taking what you want. They make sure that you can’t even accept it when it’s handed to you in person. Everything is open in front of you. It has never been easier to achieve prosperity than it is now. Never before!

The solution

But – and this is the good news – these blockages can be resolved. If you really want it. This is the sticking point that unfortunately causes many to fail. You want to be rich … somehow … you don’t have to be completely rich … just a little bit … just a new car … and a vacation … and without changing anything … just a little house, with a little garden … “just” … because you can feel rich without money … you know what I mean?

THAT’S BULLSHIT!

Either you want abundance or you don’t. And if you want it, then you really want it 100% and completely. Then why not take it? She lies at your feet. Take the big house, the Porsche and the yacht if you want them. Just take the millions, they are right in front of you.

Does the thought scare you? Yes? That’s good. Where there is the greatest fear, there is also the way. Through the fear and straight ahead. This is how the successful do it and they do it with joy.

Does that make you angry when you read it? Because you are a single parent and have to turn over every penny. Because nobody helps you, because you’ve been forgotten? And now some shaman comes along and tells you some story? Does that upset you? That’s good. Now focus this energy on yourself, your life and what you can currently improve. Even if it’s “only” your attitude to life at first.

Sure, it has to do with personal responsibility and that is hard work. If you take your life into your own hands, no one will tell you what to do. But that’s exactly the point. That YOU go your own way. And that YOU take the abundance. And then do with it what YOU think is right. You don’t have to be the best in the world, become the best version of YOU. This is completely sufficient for any kind of fullness.

Your way

Now you can work on this path yourself over years or decades – that’s what I did – or you can let yourself be accompanied (I did this too). I not only know the way forwards and backwards, I also know the shortcuts. I’m like the mountain guide you call so that you don’t have to go it all alone. And sometimes I’m a cab or a cable car or I build you a staircase.

You still have to go yourself, but above all you have to do one thing: decide.

Either yes or no

If so, then I’m ready when you are. You won’t regret it.

I start with my starter package, followed by the Deeper Mind Empowerment and then the Abundance Package or the Shamanic Vision Quest. When it comes to money, it’s also worth it financially. Believe me, in a few years the investment will seem ridiculous because you’ll be used to completely different sums. Either you tackle the issue of money right away or you don’t.

Make the decision and then let’s go!

People will soon no longer be able to afford their cars and heating will become a political issue. Nobody can pay for the gas anyway, but over there are the nasty rich people and none of this affects them. They only get richer and that’s why they are evil.

The Russians, the Americans, the refugees, the money, the rich and so on are to blame …

Fighting against the system – fighting for the system

And for many people, this results in the impulse to fight. An unbelievable number of people want everything to go back to the way it used to be and most of these people know exactly how to achieve this.

The politicians have to go or others have to come, it has to be more right-wing or more left-wing. More must be produced or less, the money supply must be restricted, no, expanded. More debt, less debt and in the end we will be controlled by Pleiadian reptiloids anyway, who grow organs in us …

The basic tenor is often the same: Someone has to put everything back the way it was. Just like mommy and daddy could. That sucked back then too, but it was still comfortable. Everything went so well. And now everything is broken, so someone has to come and fix it.

Ideally, you should announce this on Facebook or Twitter. If only enough people post about how crap masks and vaccinations are, how stupid paper money is or cryptos or the school system, everything will change. The sheep should finally wake up.

What really happens

What is currently happening in Europe and the USA, in short, in the “Western world”, is not new at all. Not at all. Historically speaking, what is happening is old hat. Unfortunately, we humans don’t get old enough to live through these cycles completely and so we only ever see the snapshot.

We see how the economy is collapsing, how inflation is eating up our last savings, how wars are looming that could well end on our own doorstep and so on.

And since we’ve never experienced anything like this personally, we think it’s new. And so we think that we can stop it by standing up to it.

Some by demonstrating, others by hoarding firewood or gold coins, others by simply burying their heads in the sand and waiting until it’s over. This is also a way of fighting, albeit a very passive one.

What we don’t want to see is situations like the current one repeating themselves every 50-100 years. And have been for thousands of years. There are people who have studied this scientifically, it’s not just a fantasy. There are even references to it in the Bible.

The phases of the emergence, rise, peak and decline of empires, countries and currency systems have been going on forever, always following the same basic pattern. Different in detail, of course, but always exactly the same in principle.

No matter what form of rule, no matter what level of technical development. There are forces at work that arise from human nature. These are not conspiracies or evil elites who want to destroy us all. No, what is at work are elemental forces that arise from our human nature.

What you are trying to do

And then you little “Hanswurscht” come and demonstrate on the village square to wake up the “sheep”. Nice try, I can understand that too, but you’re just getting yourself worked up.

Because you are not opposing this one stupid politician, but the whole of humanity. Yes, you read that right. What happens is the result of humanity itself. And they are clearly in the majority.

It’s about the rise and fall of civilizational units and this has been going on for thousands of years because it has to. Because there is no such thing as eternal growth. That’s just the way humans are wired.

The three generations

With a few exceptions, this development is even taking place on a personal level. The first generation builds, the second holds and the third destroys everything again. Because each generation only sees its part of the puzzle and never the big picture.

There are very few people who are at all interested in the big picture and even fewer who can delve deep enough to really understand the principles.

But this is not always necessary, because it is enough to know that it is so. Not so much why exactly this or that is happening in detail. Because the details differ from case to case anyway. It’s a matter of principle.

And the principle says that the EU (and the USA), for example, is now in a phase of disintegration. The masses are crying out for socialism, the state is printing money without end and devaluing it faster than it can print it. All of this is accompanied by an increasingly fierce battle between those who have and those who want.

As always, this is enriched with horror stories that ultimately only fuel fear and confusion. So that nobody recognizes the big picture.

None of this is new, even the often cited oh-so-evil “Great Reset” is not new. He now has a tangible face and great marketing through social media. But that was also the case last time, it’s just that no one is still alive who would have experienced it themselves and you have to read and understand history books, who does that anyway. But at the end of the day, it is once again just the inevitable socialism that follows high phases and ends up in chaos.

Now you can demonstrate against it, fight against it or simply not want to see it, because what you don’t see doesn’t happen … right? However, you can go against the grain. That just won’t interest things.

What would be much better

Fit in! Yes, it’s that simple. See the situation as it is and then do what the spiritual scene always throws at you: create your own reality. But …

Big misunderstanding

But that doesn’t mean that you meditate with your little job in your little apartment under the supervision of your little mindset until the world is pink again. It’s not about thinking “positively” and softening everything with light and love until everyone is nice again.

It’s not that we all have to be one again and banish everything that separates us until we are a loving mash of awakened beings of light. It’s also not about banishing the evil bad ego and being vegan until the lion is back in Bavaria.

No, it means that you change yourself, your thoughts and feelings and your actions until you are striving upwards instead of downwards. And you do this by combining your feelings with your thoughts. It’s about YOU and YOUR place in the world.

The space you have to create for yourself. And actively. Sure, it may be that every human being simply has a natural right to live. But he also has a duty to do it himself. Otherwise you can end it right away. You are free to do so. It’s also a kind of solution.

The sinking ship

Take a sinking ship. You can sit on it and meditate on the downfall. Claim that you’re doing great with it and that staying afloat is overrated anyway. And your life is nice and you’re actually doing well … but then you sink anyway because the ship is going down. This is not a conspiracy theory but physics. Or economy. Because it’s the way of the world that even the biggest ships sink at some point. You won’t stop it, because it would lead the course of events ad absurdum.

Or you recognize what is going on and then you change. If you think in time, you might catch one of the lifeboats or at least a lifebuoy. If not, you just have to jump into the water and swim without it.

You may have to disembark in the dead of night, jump, even though you don’t know how deep it is, how cold the water will be and whether you can hold out long enough to reach the shore. Who knows, you might drown on the way. Can be anything.

But if you stay on the ship, you will definitely sink.

For thousands of years, the majority of humanity has chosen to go down with the sinking ship. Because it is in their nature to do so. These are the extras I wrote about recently: Extra or leading actor

Your decision

But a certain proportion of people always choose the path of adaptation and active change. If you see that the system you are living in is going under, then move to another one! Don’t try to save the ship, save YOURSELF.

It’s as simple as that. Move, change, try out new ways. Yes, you might sink in the process and you might have to leave all those who want to go down with the ship. But if you stay where you are, you will definitely go under. What do you have to lose?

And I can tell you from my own experience and from experience with my clients: very few people who choose the path of active change go under. To be honest, I don’t know a single one.

Sure, such a path is sometimes really exhausting, because nobody tells you what to do. This is perhaps the biggest innovation for a European. You’re taking a new path. There are no instructions and laws and regulations for them yet and you can’t call the police if someone is mean to you. And yes, of course you also re-enter a system with new paths.

There’s nothing wrong with that, it just has to be one that floats stably. Fortunately, all ships never sink at the same time. For every system that goes down, a new one is created. And then there are those that are at their peak while yours is going down.

The world is a big place and there are always many more opportunities than risks.

You have to decide which path you want to take. Whether you want to go one way or whether you want to stay down and talk yourself into it or drink it up. Whatever.

I can help you

I can help you if you decide to take the new path. I won’t tell you what it looks like, because only you know your path and only after you’ve walked it. But I can help you to become so strong, free and independent from within that you can go your own way.

I can help you get your mindset big enough to grasp the wealth of possibilities. I can help you to feel and thus understand that you don’t have to remain the small employee or pensioner on 1364.67 euros a month. You can get ten times that, at least.

I can help you to see your possibilities and then actively explore new paths. Wherever they lead. Far away or once in a circle and back again, but with a different attitude. Or something in between. That’s your thing then.

But you will be able to walk and that’s all that matters! Write to me NOW

What are you doing?

And how you can still get ahead

An example

Imagine a room and engineers are sitting in this room. Not just any engineers, but really good development engineers. People with a lot of expertise and really good ideas.

And now you give them a bag full of building blocks and the task of inventing something really new.

Well, there they are, the engineers with the building blocks, and they start experimenting with them. They make a real effort and reassemble them over and over again.

Sometimes low, sometimes high, sometimes houses, sometimes something else. Soon voices are raised that something new is needed. Something truly revolutionary. Because you wouldn’t get any further with just the existing building blocks.

So someone goes out on a limb and invents something new. Admittedly, he uses material from the neighboring room and also some tools. Then he comes back and has THE sensation with him:

A building block in a previously unknown color! The smash hit!

Everyone is enthusiastic and starts experimenting again. Of course, nothing really new comes out of it, but they are engineers after all and they know what to do and invent the next big sensation:

This time the building block is made of plastic and not wood and is also slightly larger than the other building blocks.

That triggers controversy, and what controversy it triggers. The first thing to clarify is whether plastic is compatible with wood at all. Then where the advantages and disadvantages would be and whether it is allowed at all.

That keeps our engineers busy for the time being, maybe we’ll let a few lawyers and perhaps one or two administrative officials into the room – after all, we have to have a bit of fun.

What am I getting at?

This is how our mind works. Yes, sorry, of course nobody wants to hear that, but deep down you know it’s true.

Our mind can only ever reassemble what it knows, no matter how good or creative you are or how hard you try. Sure, the human mind has produced incredible things, far more than building blocks. And of course one mind can learn from another. But if you are completely honest, they were all just new combinations of material that had always been there.

As long as it works, that’s great. But what if it doesn’t work for you? When you’re living a life you don’t want and your mind just can’t find a way out? Because he thinks he only has building blocks?

What if you’re trapped in a system that you can’t get out of? If you can’t leave? If you have no chance of a career? If you are kept small?

This is not possible because …

I hear this occasionally when I discuss things with people, especially on social networks, but also in real life. “That’s not possible because…”

Basically, you would understand that there is a need for development and you would also see all the people who are doing much better. But you can’t follow a development path because you’re a single parent, because you earn so little money, because you don’t have time, have to look after someone, can’t leave the cat behind, can’t get away anyway, and so on and so forth.

The really nasty thing is that these arguments are right. That really is the case. You can’t argue against it, because if someone earns just enough to live on, then they can’t afford coaching. Point. Absolutely true.

And so that you don’t feel like a complete idiot, you might make up a few excuses. Something along the lines of “I’m also satisfied with little” and “others are even worse off” or “first this and that has to happen and then …”. This then ensures that the mind really settles down with its building blocks and doesn’t go out the door at all. Everything is great.

Viewed with the mind

From a rational point of view, there really is no solution. But that is precisely the problem, because the mind can only recombine what it knows. If he has never known anything other than earning just enough to live on by working as an employee every day, he will not find a way out of this situation. Because he only has building blocks. Because he has no idea how it could be better.

He could ensure that you earn a little more, but at the same time he would make sure that you spend more. Same situation, only your TV is bigger. He could also get you to take more vacation, work less or whatever. But all in all, you would still be exactly where you are now.

In order to find a solution, the mind would have to go one level deeper, to the spiritual level from which the material arises. So that the solution becomes tangible and then conceivable. But the mind cannot do that because it is also material. A part of a system can never see the entire system. That is simply not possible. And certainly not with thinking.

And so you can think and think and still remain a single parent, with a salary that’s not enough and a cat you can’t leave behind.

And then the shaman comes and tells you about decisions and personal responsibility and you hit the ceiling because your mind screams “that won’t work because …”.

The solution

You can only achieve the goal that you can feel. Some people seem to be able to do that, they achieve an incredible amount, there seem to be no limits. Simply because, deep down, these people have no boundaries. You can feel the absolute fullness and then you will achieve it. There is an infinite amount of life energy available to each of us and life energy can be transformed into any form of matter.

If the feeling is blocked at the point where it should go beyond the small employee salary, then you can’t get over it even with a lot of thinking. If your feelings are blocked where income and expenditure always balance each other out, then that’s where you stay. If your feeling is blocked at the point where you should let go of the rat tail that is holding you, then you won’t let it go.

To do this, you go to the spiritual level to work on the problem there.

To do this, you go into the ancestral line, into your energy system, into your beliefs, and not just the imagined ones, but – these are really nasty – into the felt ones. Into the ones you can’t reach with thinking, because they lie behind thinking. Because the mind knows nothing about them, because they look like building blocks.

What happens then

Then what often happens to my clients happens. They go beyond what they have known before and suddenly have completely new options for action. Sometimes they are amazed at what they can suddenly do.

Some don’t even realize this during the process and at some point are shocked at what they have created for themselves. Suddenly there is freedom where before there was a prison. Suddenly it doesn’t stop at 1457.56 euros net, but ten times that or a hundred times that … what a blatant idea and no, not one that is “unrealistic”. Who has decided what is “realistic” for you so far? The mind, right? The one with the building blocks. I see.

Just imagine, suddenly there’s no one in the way. No family, no state, no borders, no limited resources, no one. Suddenly it’s just you, the world and incredible possibilities.

The mind can’t get to it, the senses can. And if you can feel where you are going, then your mind can join in again and take care of the implementation. Then the two work together.

This doesn’t happen by chance, it doesn’t happen overnight and you need someone to accompany you. Someone who guides you because he knows the way. I like to do this, often and hopefully soon together with you.

So, what do you feel? And what are you going to DO now?

And then I looked to see what the reactions were. As always with Facebook, there was everything from professional to “complete idiot” (anyone who knows Facebook understands that).

The sense

But this hint had a purpose. There is a message behind it, a very important message.

First of all, I am not an astrology expert. Strictly speaking, I have about zero idea about it. However, I have people I can ask. Very important if you have no idea about a topic. More on this below.

However, the Mercury retrograde is an issue for me as a Gemini. Not one that always has to be in the foreground, sometimes I only analyze the effect of this phenomenon in retrospect. And then I bite my ass. Because it would have made more sense to do it beforehand.

Roughly speaking, Mercury retrograde ensures that business matters run much more slowly than usual. In such phases, concluded contracts are terminated, bookings are canceled, new bookings are made more difficult and overall business is slower than usual.

When you hit a phase like this without warning, it is extremely annoying and exhausting. Especially if you are planning marketing campaigns or major business transactions during this time. More things go wrong than usual and you have to invest a lot more energy, time and nerves.

Now, of course, you can dismiss this as a crazy idea and just get on with it. You don’t have to be like that, after all, life is not a pony farm and if you have set yourself goals, then you will achieve them. With force if necessary.

Sure, it works, but it’s really exhausting. It has to be easier somehow.

An example

Imagine you had to cross a stretch of land. A very wild stretch of land, somewhere in the outback. You are a hiker in an area where not many people live, far away from civilization.

There are no real paths, only trails. They are quite winding and never really visible, there don’t seem to be any signposts. Between you and your destination there are several rivers, lots of forest, gorges, mountains and swamps.

A real wilderness, just like you would find as a lonely hiker, far away from civilization. You are now at your starting point and have to get through it. You can already see your destination in the distance, but you can’t yet see the way there. The forest is too dense for that.

Then you go off, because it doesn’t help, you have to get through one way or another. So you take the direct route and head into the wilderness. With a machete in your hand, you make your way through the forest, wading through the first swamp, which is really exhausting, as you know if you’ve ever waded through a swamp.

Then comes the first river, phew, quite a lot of current. But you conquer it and reach the other shore. Proud of your performance, but soaked to the skin and completely out of breath. After a short rest we continue, now we come to a few mountains and gorges, quite a slog, but you’ll get through them too.

And so it goes on, with one or two more rivers to come, all with lots of water and currents. A few swamps and forest everywhere. Lots of forest. But you can do it, you’ll get there. Completely at the end of your tether, but you got through, that’s what counts!

Is that really all? Another hiker arrives shortly after you and he is not out of breath at all. He looks as if he’s just gone for a little walk, he smiles at you and wonders why you’re so exhausted.

What did the second hiker do differently? He came from the same starting point, does he have more stamina? No, he has a card. Simple solution, he has a map of the area and not only a spatial one, but also a temporal one.

What you didn’t know was where you could cross the rivers most easily and where the paths in the forest and through the swamps were. And also when the water level would be high and when it would be low. The second hiker knew when and where it was easiest to get through.

It’s as simple as that. The example is far-fetched? No, it is not. Have you ever traveled by car in Costa Rica? No, then do that. It can happen that you follow the Google navigation and suddenly find yourself in front of a river that you have to drive through because there is no bridge. This is not uncommon in Costa Rica, in some areas it is even the rule.

If you have no idea whether it’s the dry season or the rainy season, you might look pretty stupid and have to turn around again. Or drown your car in the river. And yes, that also happens there from time to time. Especially for those who don’t know the difference between the dry and rainy seasons or who want to go through the wall with their heads.

Mercury retrograde

And it’s just as simple in life, because that also knows cards like this.

Mercury is such a card, or part of it. And a temporal one at that. If it is retrograde, you know that the river in front of you is in flood. Sure, you can still get through, but you’ll be extremely out of breath afterwards and risk your head and neck.

You could also simply wait until the water level returns to normal and then wade through in a relaxed manner. You can use the time until then for something else. You can rest, make new plans, fish or simply stare holes in the air.

And that’s exactly my point with this example. Having goals, defining them and then pursuing them is one thing. A very important one, of course, because without clear goals and a clear decision to achieve them, you won’t set off in the first place.

The cards of life

But it is just as important to have a map. And there are plenty of tickets. Western astrology is just one of them. There is also the Asian equivalent and even a strategy technique called Quimen Dunjia. I dealt with this many years ago. Extremely informative. And there are plenty of other ways to analyze and refine your personality, your strengths, your strategies and the appropriate time slots.

The annual festivals, or the stations in the annual cycle, are also such a map. Incidentally, one for which I offer active guidance, see Annual Circle.

But there are also geographical maps in life, as some projects are easier to implement in other places. Which is why I left Germany, for example, and many other people change their place of residence to suit their goals. This is not “running away”, this is following a geographical map with the aim of finding the best conditions.

There are political cards, for some projects it just makes sense to turn your back on a burgeoning socialism or to avoid drastic social rules or too much surveillance and control. Or a society that is not optimal for your own growth because it pursues different goals than you do. Or because she no longer pursues any goals and gets angry when you do.

In addition to the maps, there are even guides that you can hire to help you get to your destination. People like me, for example, shamans and coaches. But you can also ask advisors of all kinds. For example, how I have people I can ask about astrology. Or who can give me legal advice or know where I can stay and for how long in order to remain tax-free.

So what to do?

Use the cards! Use all the cards you can get. And there is also a very important card, namely your gut feeling. Or your heart, however you want to define it. This is another card that works well in combination with the other cards. The important key word is “in combination”. Gut feeling without cards is just as stupid as cards without gut feeling. You can learn that too, a large part of my work revolves around exactly that.

Don’t discard half the cards just because you think they’re garbage. It’s not a map, really not a map at all. A card is a card and the cards of life are all correct. The only decision you have to make is whether to use them or not.

Then you will realize that for everything, really everything in your life, there are times, places and approaches that are more favorable than others. And then you can use your life energy more efficiently than before. Nobody is forcing you to do it, you can also do it like the first hiker in the example and conquer everything by force. You can also squat. Not all cards are always suitable for all of us. Finding out requires a bit of detective work and again the use of maps and helpers. You can do all this, try it out or leave it.

You always bear the consequences yourself anyway.

What not to do under any circumstances?

Staying in place. In the example above, both hikers have reached their destination. One with effort, the other seemingly effortlessly, but they both arrived because they both set off.

If you want to lose no matter what, then stay on your couch and wait. It could be that the target comes closer on its own or someone feeds you. It’s never worked before, but who knows …

You can always say afterwards: “I spent a lot of time on the couch”. Maybe that will be a mitigating factor when you realize you’ve wasted your life. It doesn’t help if you tell yourself that you’re fine and that the universe will always take care of you.

Sure, it does. By giving you the opportunity to act!

This article is about a topic that can be a little “triggering”, as it puts its finger on a wound that is as old as humanity itself. Perhaps even older. It is about separation, about moving on, about duality, about very fundamental aspects of our being.

He just doesn’t get it!

Manfred is one of those people who have already achieved great things and is constantly working on himself to get ahead, to become more stable, to get even bigger. Manfred is an entrepreneur and one who takes his life seriously. He always was, even as a 6-year-old he was already the best soccer player in his age group.

He is someone who not only does what everyone else does, but who is constantly developing on a personal level in order to be better than everyone else. He does not want to decide whether he is “spiritual” or not. But he does everything he can to develop himself, to remove blockages, to invest in himself. And he is successful with it. Very much so. And he is awake, recognizes what is happening in the world, why it is happening and how he has to position himself so that it doesn’t happen to him.

His brother is completely different. After school, he did an apprenticeship rather listlessly and now he’s working in a company as an employee and that’s where he is now. From Manfred’s point of view, completely motionless. Work from morning to evening, Monday to Friday. Weekend beer and barbecue with the boys. The television tells him what to think and what to buy, neither of which is questioned.

Career? Nope, what for? Invest? Nope, what for? Any personal development steps? Nope, what for? Understand what is happening and then act? Nope, what’s happening? Nothing happens.

Manfred could almost despair

Do you know people like that? I don’t mean Manfred, but his brother? These many people who seem to behave like sheep, don’t seem to think, don’t seem to develop and are more or less apathetically at the mercy of life’s movements?

Do you sometimes feel like you want to shake these people until they finally move? Until they somehow, no matter how, just somehow develop? But they don’t do it and they don’t even see the need.

They run blindly into wars, into economic crises, into oppression, into ruin. And not only that, they sometimes hate you just for not running blindly somewhere. For maybe even trying to save them. They hate you, they laugh at you, they put obstacles in your way, they want to get rid of you.

But why is this the case and why do there seem to be so many of these people and so few of those who continue to develop? And why do you sometimes even have someone like that as a partner?

“Slightly” provocative

A valued colleague and friend of mine once referred to these people as “filler souls”.

Ok, admittedly, taken on its own, this statement could be seen as rather patronizing. But that’s not what she meant at all, not at all. Let me try to explain it.

It’s like in the movie

Let’s compare the world with a movie. In every feature film, there is one or a few main characters around whom the whole movie revolves. They have great adventures, achieve incredible things, look great and are adored by everyone. In short, they are the main actors.

But they are not alone, there are a few supporting actors and lots of extras who seem to be there just to walk through the picture at the right moment. Completely unimportant.

Right? No, they are not. Imagine an action movie with only the main actor. Running wildly, completely alone through an empty landscape. Imagine the old Rambo movies, only with Rambo.

Quite an embarrassing performance. That does not work. You can film lugworms mating while you’re at it.

With very few cinematic exceptions, there can be no feature film without supporting actors and extras. And if one of these extras can only be seen for a second on the other side of the street, this second is immensely important in order to give the main actor his stage.

Without the second of the extra, the second of the main actor doesn’t work. So who is more important, the extra or the leading actor? Exactly, both are equally important because one cannot do without the other.

Incarnations

Now let’s assume that we humans incarnate here in the material world from the spiritual world. Let’s assume that we do this again and again and that we do it to develop ourselves.

Let’s assume that we only created the material world in order to be able to develop in a material world.

What would happen if we all incarnated at the same time with the aim of personal development? Exactly, we would have a world full of main characters. That would work just as poorly as a feature film with only leading actors. Well, maybe a movie with only 20 Rambos would work somehow … but it wouldn’t make any sense.

So there have to be extras and my theory is that we therefore always need souls who incarnate as extras or filler souls. So that those who come here for development can do the same.

We probably take turns, everyone is an extra sometimes, everyone is the main actor sometimes. So there is no evaluation in it, no “better” or “worse”. It is simply the current position, which is probably already clear before we go into incarnation. From the point of view of the spiritual level from which we come, this is probably not really a judgment. Who should judge at this level? After all, this is a material construct put together by the material mind.

In practice

In the practice of material life, this means that you can neither “wake up” nor save an extra. What parts of the spiritual scene are always so keen to repeat, that the world must now “wake up” and that everyone should finally understand what it’s all about, is bullshit.

The coaching scene is no better when it claims that everyone needs a coach.

Anyone who is incarnated as an extra will also do their job as an extra. There’s no other way. He won’t hire a coach because he doesn’t want to change. The entire material world will not “wake up”, because that would be a movie in which all the extras would suddenly become the main characters, a movie with 7 billion Rambos. After that, it would no longer be a feature film, but a huge mess that nobody would want to see.

Who are you?

But now it’s getting exciting. Who are you? Are you an extra or a leading actor? And why do some people seem to start out as extras and only then become stars?

Well, the first question is quickly answered. If you were a statist, you wouldn’t be reading this article. Because then you would have no motivation to develop further, because that would not be your plan for this incarnation. Then I would be an “esospinner” to you and you would blaspheme about me over a beer or not even know of my existence.

So you are a leading actor. That’s an important realization, because maybe you don’t feel that way at all.

Maybe you feel more like an extra who has realized that everyone around him is an extra, but can’t make them understand that. Are you perhaps a “small employee” who sees that the world is sliding into ruin, but no one seems to understand you?

Do you feel like the only sighted person among blind people? Then you might be one of those actors who start out as an extra and become the main character in the course of the movie. Like someone who starts as a clerk in a company and then works their way up to become the boss. While his former colleagues remain clerks until they retire.

What are you doing?

Then change that. As soon as you realize that you are among extras, but that you are not one, you can start to change your position.

This is not always easy, because no incarnation stands alone. They are all connected to each other and you are also connected to your ancestors who were before you in this incarnation, in this movie.

And perhaps part of the development you have planned for yourself is to work your way up from the bottom. So this is not a malicious trap that fate has set for you, but part of your process.

Perhaps it is unavoidable that you virtually leave the people around you behind. That you drop them, hand them over to destruction. You may have to watch them drown in the crowd. That can be part of the journey. Just as someone who makes a career has to come to terms with the fact that his former colleagues are stuck at the bottom. But that’s their decision, their job.

If you stay a small employee because you love the other small employees so much, then you stay there. With all the consequences. But that’s not what you’re here for.

The fact that you are reading this article is also part of your process and if I offer to help you in this article, then that is also part of the process.

And yes, I can help you. I have walked the path myself and I have accompanied many people along the way. Now it’s your turn, you can keep trying to wake up filler souls and get crookedly angry. Or you can continue on your way. Even if it means seemingly leaving the filler souls behind.

It’s about you taking up your position in this incarnation. And it’s way up there, otherwise you wouldn’t have read this far. Even if it feels difficult or you are afraid of the path, get started. Take the first step. Step out of the crowd of extras and take up your position.

Head person versus emotional person

Namely the differences between so-called head people and emotional people.

First of all: What I write below is not intended to be an assessment of who is better or worse. Both are equally good and both have their justification. My aim is to find a solution to the dilemma that the two don’t really seem to go together.

Because they make their decisions in different ways. Because they seem to approach life’s challenges so completely differently.

The head person

Makes a decision on the basis of information he has researched. It compares prices, aspects, qualities, sizes and availability. He makes pro and con lists, Excel tables and comparisons.

He reads reviews, tests extensively and keeps an eye on the finances. He has an analytical and rational explanation for everything he does. If you ask him why he is doing something, he will be able to tell you exactly why.

He can tell you why he bought what he bought. He can calculate, analyze and think everything through before he acts. He is a big fan of studies, statistics and provable facts.

The emotional person

Makes his decisions “from the gut”. If he wants to buy something, he feels whether it is good for him and then he does it. If you ask him why, this question will alienate him. He won’t understand why you’re asking him that and if he does, he’ll tell you that he just wanted the thing.

He is not interested in reviews from other people or references because he can’t do anything with them. He doesn’t plan his future because he knows that he only needs to follow the energy. He trusts the universe and himself and goes his own way, wherever that may lead him.

He sometimes knows things without being able to explain why and how.

Basically

As stated at the beginning, this is not a judgment. There are these two types of behavior patterns and both have their justification. Neither is better or worse than the other, even if there are sometimes misunderstandings and even arguments between people of the two patterns.

Especially in relationships, both private and professional, it can be difficult if one person is more of a head person and the other an emotional person.

Emotional people often describe head people as hard and unfair or as unconscious or even destructive. And emotional people are often portrayed as effeminate fools because they are once again unable to explain why they do what they do.

An example

Many, many years ago, I saw an example in a TV documentary that clicked with me and that I still remember today. It was one of those supposedly real documentaries about a couple who wanted to buy a property.

Whether the plot was real or fake, the problem was that he selected houses according to location, number of rooms, furnishings, technology, condition, financing options and so on. A head person through and through, with precise ideas of what is needed and how the house must be designed in order to be able to realize future family planning.

He certainly did a very good job, but during the viewing his wife repeatedly said: “I don’t feel comfortable here”. That almost drove him out of his mind. He kept asking her why she didn’t feel well, what the reason was and what could be done. She must be able to justify this, he said, sounding somewhat helpless.

He really went out of his way to get the perfect house for them. He really wanted to know what needed to be different. But she couldn’t tell him that. Not that he understood it.

Because whether an emotional person feels good or not cannot be broken down into arguments. He feels comfortable or not. The only thing that helps is to keep looking until it fits. She didn’t understand why he got angry at some point. And he didn’t understand what he was doing “wrong”.

They were obviously unaware of the difference in their approaches.

Another example

This time from my business environment. There are a lot of colleagues who collect heaps of references from their clients on their websites. And which show a lot of facts, publish statements from customers and also success stories.

Because they are the kind of people who form an opinion based on references, facts, evaluations and analyses. They assume that their customers do the same and act accordingly.

Then there are the others, including myself. I don’t give a damn about ratings and references. Or to announcements and promises. When I hire someone for something, I feel them out and then I know whether they are good for me or not. And most of my clients feel the same way.

Both approaches work and both are good. If you know who you are.

The problem

And this is often precisely where the problem lies. We are sometimes not aware that this difference exists and how to deal with it. Quite often, we don’t even know exactly what type we are.

Because, of course, the boundaries are fluid. An emotional person can also process arguments and make rational decisions and, of course, a head person can also tell whether they feel good or not. A sentimentalist can also come because of a recommendation or because he has read a reference.

But often enough, these boundaries are blurred or shifted by our social conditioning. Unfortunately, it often happens to emotional people that they are forced to use “hard” arguments in kindergarten and school instead of relying on their feelings.

You often see this with children. “I don’t like going there”. “But why don’t you want to go there?”. “I don’t know, I don’t like going there”. “But you must be able to tell me why. It’s nice there” … and at some point the child gives up. At some point it suppresses its feelings and if it doesn’t find hard arguments instead, it gives up its own will. A head child will find arguments, an emotional child dies inside.

And then at some point you grow up and you keep the pattern. Either you do what you’re told even though your gut is screaming the opposite. Or you follow your feelings, but invest an incredible amount of energy in seemingly justifying them with facts. Because you no longer have the courage to stand by your feelings, you argue until you are understood. Or maybe not.

It’s not that rare, ask a man who drives a luxury car why he drives this car. Very few people will directly say that they think it’s cool because it feels good. Most will say something about mass, crumple zone and safety, with value stability, load volume, leasing rates and so on.

Even those who are actually emotional people. Sure, all important arguments, but they generally bought the car because it’s cool. They just don’t admit it.

So what to do?

It is very important that you know who you are! Yes, exactly, so banal. But it’s not that trivial, because our true nature has been superimposed since birth and even much longer through our ancestral line. There are many layers of learned patterns on top. They all have to be processed so that you can find yourself.

But that has its advantages. Because if you know who you are, you can act consciously and of your own accord. If you are an emotional person, you can always disguise your feelings with arguments if necessary. But then you do it consciously and not unconsciously.

And as a head person, you can also feel or follow your partner’s feelings without immediately losing control of your life. You can then combine the two and do so consciously!

If the couple from the example above had known who they were, there would have been no argument. They both could have combined his analytical skills with her feelings without getting angry at their mutual lack of understanding.

Especially in business, it is extremely important to know yourself and also to know that other people may approach things differently. This is particularly important for entrepreneurs and managers. But also for employees.

Just because an employee cannot explain his actions with facts does not necessarily mean that his decisions are wrong. Perhaps he just meets them differently than expected. You can use this and you can even combine head and emotional people in a targeted way.

But when people deny themselves because they don’t know who they are or don’t dare to be who they are, an incredible amount of energy is lost.

How I can help

A lot of my work is about helping people to find out who they are. To show people ways to dissolve all these overlays caused by conditioning, ancestral influences, etc.

You will be amazed at how much life energy you suddenly have, how much you can suddenly achieve when this fight against yourself and the rest of the world is no longer necessary. When you can suddenly stand up for yourself and your truth in a completely relaxed way.

Don’t wait any longer, tackle the issue. We always start with an introductory session, after which we see what your path could look like and then we walk it together.

PS: What I don’t mean

The type of person I definitely don’t mean by “emotional person” here – and this is important, as it often leads to major misunderstandings – is the type of “professional victim” who feels that half the world has hurt his feelings and cheated him out of his life because everyone is so cruel and evil. Because the partner is such a narcissist and the boss is such a capitalist, and no one is kind to animals …

THESE are people who find themselves in the role of victim. Incidentally, there are also head people who like to get involved in political discussions at the regulars’ table. There are also ways out, but I would be happy to write a separate article on this.

In short: you don’t feel as comfortable as you would like. There’s something else. You can’t grasp it. Maybe it keeps you running, you can’t let go, you can’t relax.

Or your health becomes noticeable and you feel something is wrong. You could actually sit back, relax and enjoy your life. Enjoy what you have built up.

But it doesn’t work and you don’t really know why. The right place is missing, or the right partner or … yes, what is it? The sense of well-being is missing.

If you already have everything, but …

Don’t worry, the solution is not to donate all your money and live in poverty. Money alone may not make you happy, but not having any usually makes you unhappy.

No, that’s not a solution, please keep your wealth, you’ve probably worked hard for it.

The problem lies somewhere else entirely and it is precisely those people who have their lives very well under control and are very successful who only realize late on when something is wrong somewhere. If you are on your way to the top, you have enough energy to simply gloss over minor inconsistencies.

There’s always something to do. Building a business, investing, sport, hobbies, family and, when everything is going well, the many leisure activities. Everything without limits, because there is always enough matter.

Then at some point …

But there comes a point when you realize that something is missing. Perhaps because you find it difficult to retire from active business life, or because you can’t let go of your now grown-up children. Perhaps there are also more and more arguments in your private life or you feel driven. Can’t really relax.

Or because you suddenly feel a touch of depression. You realize something is wrong. But what? Where to start? Can’t everything have been wrong?

Quite the opposite

But perhaps you have overlooked a small cog somewhere along the way. A part of you that you did not bring into life.

Perhaps the lack of this element has even helped you to be successful. Some people are so successful because they are virtually running away from a deep emotional injury or deficiency.

This often brings very good results, but only as long as you keep running.

An example of this

Let’s call him Peter. Peter is 68 years old and a classic entrepreneur. A medium-sized company, a few dozen employees and the company built up from nothing. Always working hard, many hours a day.

The first one in the morning and the last one in the evening. Always there for everyone, always delivered good work and put the company first.

It paid off, the business is in great health and now he has sold it for really good money. He’s done everything right, the sailing boat is already waiting, he’ll have time now.

But he can’t rest. Quite the opposite. The worst stress at the company was not as grueling as what he is going through now in “retirement”. The whole world seems to have conspired, he can’t get a break.

He’s already been through doctors and psychologists, he could run up and down the walls. What’s wrong with him?

The process leads to his childhood. To him and to his father. Who never really saw him because he was preoccupied with himself. Peter always tried to be seen. To catch the father’s eye. But it didn’t work because the father couldn’t. He got everything he needed, his childhood wasn’t bad. Only he was not seen. Didn’t notice at the time.

So what did Peter do unconsciously? He started working like crazy, always trying to be the best and build something, because his father has to see him at some point. At some point! The pattern was of course unconscious and it helped to ensure that he never let up and made the company really big.

Until “retirement”. This unconscious pattern suddenly came to nothing and almost plunged him into depression. Until we found it and solved it.

And this example is not an isolated case. Not at all.

At some point

At some point, you will reach the point where you have to face up to the part that seems to be missing. Or the one that somehow seems to be too much. Otherwise he will start to torment you.

There’s no shame in that, why should there be? You’ve also constantly sought help on your way to the top. Then you can do the same when you’re at the top. So that you can stay on top and enjoy it.

So let’s go together to find out which part is not where it should be and let’s work on it. It can’t be any harder than your way up, it’s definitely worth it. As always, I’ll start with my point of entry and then we’ll see what needs to be done and how to do it.