Nothing happens without a reason. Nothing is as it is for no reason. But the issue is very widespread. The more opportunities our society seems to offer, the more people have a problem with the meaning of it all.

Reasons and solutions for the phenomenon of being dissatisfied/unhappy for seemingly no reason

Sometimes I can’t see the wood for the trees. Often when it comes to communicating with people I meet outside the context of my practice. So people from school, kindergarten or simply the neighbors.

I’m asked what I do, I say “shaman” and then people are usually interested. Many have an idea of spiritual and mental connections, some do not. But interest is almost always there.

Recently again. We talk for quite a long time and at some point my counterpart seems to be talking out of context:

“You work is all well and good, but not for me. I’m just generally unhappy, I always have been, no matter what I do, for no reason. Nobody helps me with that”.

Bang!

Why do you think you have neither a reason nor a solution?

There is a huge belief in the room, no, actually two: “groundless” and “nobody can help”. But they are both connected, because as we know as part of our ultra-modern society, everything has to have a reason so that someone can help.

One that can be explained with reason or even measured with devices. Or determined in a study, which is even better. If this is not the case, there is no reason and then a person’s suffering is for no reason. Point. You can’t do anything, nobody can help you. Let him pull himself together. See also my article on head and emotional people

The reason has simply not been recognized,

because the search was carried out in the wrong place or, worse still, not at all. Because nobody is dissatisfied for “no reason”. How could that work? Dissatisfied is someone who lacks something. Who cannot live a part of himself, who perhaps cannot even reach a part of himself, who does not even sense his presence.

And if the person has consciously or unconsciously been told from an early age that there can be no reason for this, then they believe it and stop looking for a solution. He never comes to see me. Because he doesn’t even know that there is a reason and therefore a solution.

But what to do now?

It is often a milestone in your personal development when you realize that there is a reason after all. And that there are people who also see this and don’t immediately deny it.

Just the fact that there is a shaman who sees that there must be a reason for this dissatisfaction is worth its weight in gold. And as a shaman, I can actually see this clearly and vividly on a spiritual level.

And if you can actively search for a solution with the person, then that’s phenomenal.

It is no longer so important whether the process is perhaps exhausting, because even that is still less exhausting than continuing to be dissatisfied “for no reason”. It never stops on its own.

Where does this lead?

Working on such issues often leads deep into childhood and even further into the ancestral line. Often 6 or 7 generations back and sometimes even further.

A child comes into this world with all its potential and abilities and quickly realizes that it can’t do anything with a large part of it. Sometimes even because people are afraid and suppress it consciously or unconsciously. That they are rejected, bullied or even beaten for it.

And it’s often not even the parents’ fault, because they too were a product of their ancestors and their time and often had no choice but to only partially see their child.

This is a desperate situation for a child, because it is dependent on being accepted and cared for. And so it does what needs to be done and splits off all the parts of the soul that supposedly don’t fit into the world.

What remains is the part that works, that is pleasing, that is comfortable, that is successful, that does what society demands.

And this all happens completely unconsciously over two decades or even longer, because a child cannot yet understand what it is doing. By the time this understanding is possible, the parts are so well hidden that nobody knows anything about them.

And then this person is dissatisfied, even unhappy, and sees no reason for it.

My job as a shaman

My job is to help you find these parts again. To accept it, to live it. Because by now you are no longer a child. In the meantime, you may have some yourself and realize that you also have trouble seeing your children as they are.

But now you can live your shares … once you have found them.

To do this, we release the inheritance of all the blockages from the ancestral line, we do chakra work to restore the energy flow, we travel into the spiritual world and retrieve the hidden parts, we work on beliefs and all the tricky prevention mechanisms that have been built up over decades.

And then together we will find ways to live ALL of your parts to the full, which often results in true miracles. And in the end there is only satisfaction … with or without reason.

Because especially in turbulent times, it is important to have an unencumbered retreat. Unfortunately, most properties, whether new or existing, are anything but unencumbered. There is a lot going wrong in terms of energy, so it is all the more important to take professional care of it.

But what is this energetic clearing and why is it so important?

Let me expand briefly

Do you know what a smoke house is? No? This is the name of a type of house from days long gone. Back then, before the Middle Ages, there were no glass windows and no wood-burning stoves. Not even the fireplace had been invented.

So how did people heat their homes? Quite simply, they had a fireplace in the middle of the house and the smoke escaped through a hole in the roof. Now you can imagine what the air was like in these houses.

If not, sit in a tent and make a small fire. Let’s see when you run out of air. Of course, people back then didn’t know any different and so they probably put up with the smoke somehow.

They didn’t get old back then, it was usually over at 35. Also because of the smoke, which was of course extremely harmful to health in this concentration. But they didn’t know any different.

Until someone invented the chimney and the smoke was no longer drawn into the house, but up the chimney. Now the air was better and the people healthier. At some point, someone came up with the idea of closing the open fireplace with a door and the oven was invented. And again, the air was cleaner and the people healthier.

And so it went on, hygiene was invented, soap, baths, glass windows and so on. All with the aim of making life healthier. And people began to live longer.

Until today.

And now everything is great?

You might think that everything is great and perfect now. The air is relatively clean, the apartment is warm and the bathroom is ready. There’s nothing more to invent? Nothing more to improve?

Oh yes, there is. Namely at the energy level. Incidentally, this is a level that they were already familiar with in the smokehouse. So you don’t really have to invent anything anymore. You just have to be aware of it and then DO it.

This refers to energetic cleansing. We humans are energetic beings and wherever we go, we leave traces. You probably know that when you’ve had visitors, they hang around for a while. Is somehow still noticeable. Especially if the visit was very intense or even unpleasant.

You then take the vacuum cleaner or mop and clean up. Not just because there would be visible dirt, but because you feel uncomfortable not doing it.

The problem

But what you are feeling is not material dirt, it is energy. And you can’t get rid of them with a mop. Especially not if it has accumulated over the years or even comes from the previous occupant.

You will feel it at some point. Your apartment feels dull and musty. Your energy is off when you’re there. Sleep is no longer restful. You may even have the feeling that there is someone or something in the room. If this energy condenses further, it can lead to haunting phenomena.

And earthbound souls love to nest where there is a lot of old energy. They literally lie down in it, like in a made bed. And then it slowly but surely chokes you off.

The energetic super disaster

Everything that takes place in our homes, be it visits, activities, thoughts, feelings, etc., leaves energy behind. Even in times of social distancing, the energy burden is not decreasing.

No, it is rising. Because we are virtually locked in. Along with our insecurity, our fears, our reluctance. We sit together in a more or less confined space and simmer away on a low flame, so to speak. And the smaller this space is, the more difficult it becomes for us.

Everything that burdens us is even more intense due to the current situation, everything that we were somehow able to carry outside now stays with us in the apartment. And nobody knows for how long. This is more than demanding in terms of energy.

What’s more, many of us are inevitably working from home. And what does that mean? Of course, we also bring the energy from our workplace home with us. Not just when we come home from work as usual. No, we are energetically planting our boss, our colleagues and all the company’s problems in the middle of our living room or kitchen.

This is the energetic super disaster

And this super disaster will remain, because even when everything returns to normal, this energy will not simply disappear on its own. Neither does the dirt from the street. The energy must be eliminated, and preferably not at some point in the distant future but in between.

So that the place is worth living in again and the family is still a family afterwards.

The solution

Just as there are cleaners for material dirt, there are also cleaners for energetic dirt. This is exactly what energetic clearing is made for. In such a clearing, I cleanse your home of all the old energy that makes it appear dull and musty.

I cleanse them of earthbound souls and other “inhabitants”, I make them energetically fresh again. That’s a lot of work, so it comes at a price. But you don’t have to hire me every week like a cleaning lady, just occasionally. Once a year is enough and we should definitely carry out a thorough cleaning once.

The big advantage for you is that you can do this remotely. Since it’s about energy, I don’t have to be on site. It may make sense for you to leave the apartment at the time of cleaning, as such a process can be quite exhausting. But apart from that, you don’t have to do anything. The effect is phenomenal, you will feel it immediately.

Incidentally, sellers of real estate and sometimes even estate agents are increasingly engaging me. This is because they have discovered that energy-efficient properties are easier and often even more expensive to sell.

What are you waiting for?

First I have to …

Do you know that?

You’re in the middle of a crisis and instead of taking action, this and that has to happen or be done first and you seem to be getting deeper and deeper into the misery. Which makes finding a solution all the more impossible. A vicious circle.

Turbulent times

These are turbulent times, things are happening that our modern, science- and technology-oriented minds cannot cope with. Suddenly the world seems to be falling apart at the seams, nothing is safe anymore and you find yourself standing on the edge of a supposed abyss. How did it get this far?

Feelings of powerlessness are the result; we seem to be at the mercy of a superior force. And that in our safe world today? How can that be? When we are so rich and developed? Where is the fault?

The problem with the “crisis” is not the crisis but how we deal with it.

We don’t get anywhere by wallowing in the problem and trying to find someone to blame. But how do we use the current situation to our advantage? Isn’t it difficult to work on yourself right now? When we are all somehow worried about our existence? Or our hard-earned savings or our well-being?

But right now is the best time to take a look. To look at where the causes of our current feelings lie. And these causes are not where many of us suspect them to be.

Your fear for your savings does not lie in the threat of losing them. Your fear of illness and death is not due to the higher level of risk.

Your feeling of being cooped up is not because you are not allowed to leave your house. Your feeling of being at the mercy of a threatening superior force is not due to the existence of a superior force.

All these feelings have a cause that is not so obvious. Somehow the basic trust in the way the universe works doesn’t seem to be there. But why? Where can we find it?

And where do we find the path that works for us in this situation?

The solution

You will not find the solution at the level at which the problem manifests itself. You have to go deeper, to the spiritual level. These are the starting points for achieving truly sustainable change.

And this is exactly where shamanic coaching comes in

It uncovers hidden patterns and exposes beliefs. It takes you deep into your ancestral lineage and sometimes also into earlier incarnations.

It leads you to exactly those parts of yourself that you least want to see. Because you don’t know them, because they scare you, because they are unfamiliar or because you have learned that you are not allowed to show them.

It leads you to basic trust and connects you to the source of your life energy

In the end, it leads you to yourself as you really are. To yourself in your full size, in your full strength. And once you’ve got there, no crisis can do you any good.

Do it. Now!

And let’s be honest … when would be a better time for this than right NOW? Especially as this also works from a distance … the spirit plane knows no spatial dimension.

Don’t get confused by all the “ifs” and “buts” and “can’t because …” of your mind. The best time to change something, to act is always NOW.

You don’t save your savings by hiding them even better. Believe me, inflation will still find them. You save your savings by investing them. And in you. Because this puts you in a position to use the crisis to grow from it.

You don’t have to save your company first and then yourself. It’s the other way around, because your company depends on you. Work on yourself BEFORE you are completely broke.

Or are these the roles you play in life? There’s nothing wrong with that per se; we all play roles in life. At the end of the day, our life IS perhaps even a role. From a shamanic point of view, we are spiritual beings who incarnate in this material world in order to gain experience and develop ourselves.

So all of life is something like a role. But beneath this lies our true nature, which we should know so that we know which roles help us on our path and which hinder us.

Do you know your true nature?

When does our incarnation begin? With our birth? Or even before? At our conception? Or with the decision of a spiritual being to incarnate? Whenever this happens, we are not consciously in this life at that time. Because we are still far too small for that.

And we do not incarnate in a vacuum, rather we end up in the lives of our parents, siblings, grandparents and in our entire environment. And our very first goal here is to survive.

Because if our physical body does not survive, all plans are invalid. So once we arrive, we do what needs to be done so that we can live. Babies and toddlers have sophisticated strategies for this and we parents react almost automatically and care for our children.

And we live our lives in the meantime, according to our patterns and in our energy. The child automatically adapts and adopts our way of living, thinking, feeling and acting as well as our basic skills. It takes on our roles and those that we consciously or unconsciously assign to the child.

A child automatically adapts to what it finds. It will automatically behave in such a way that it is accepted or at least cared for by the community.

A child will really do everything it can to fit into its environment. No matter how much it has to bend for it or how much it suffers.

An example

Imagine you incarnate with the intention of bringing your incredible healing power into the world. You may have been incarnated as a healer umpteen times, you are one of these “old souls” and then you end up in a household of engineers. All head people.

None of your spiritual abilities are seen there because they can’t do it. Conversely, you can’t do anything with technical facts. Nevertheless, as a small child you will adapt to the extent that you will be taken care of.

And maybe it will still work when you grow up because your parents are loving and take really good care of you. You will make friends with the facts but hide your healing powers.

You are loved, but you are not seen in your true nature!

The circumstances and the guilt

As a child, when you realize that you can’t live parts of yourself, of your personality, then you don’t understand that circumstances are forcing you to do so. As a child, you only realize that you are somehow “wrong”.

That you’re annoying, that you scare people, that you’re uncomfortable, that you can’t do something, that nobody understands you. And you blame yourself because children can’t help it. As a child, you always automatically blame yourself. And at some point you stop trusting yourself, stop loving yourself.

And then you bury the “disturbing” parts deep down because you don’t want to be to blame, because you can’t bear it as a child. You put them in a chest, put five locks on them and forget where you put them.

And what little is left of you then works as desired. It behaves the way it has to behave to avoid getting into trouble. That has good grades, that is friendly, polite and helpful. That gets an education, finds a job and is a recognized member of society.

That finds a husband or wife, builds a house and pays it off. That raises children and perhaps grandchildren too. They might buy a boat or go on vacation.

Up to the point where none of this helps and then you feel like you’ve hit a wall. A wall of meaninglessness and then this question comes up again:

Who are you?

So who are you really? What plans, goals and abilities did you come into this life with? Who is this spiritual being, this soul that has incarnated here, really?

What kind of parts did you put in this chest back then, very early in your childhood? Were they really bad? Or was that YOU in all your energy and fullness?

I mean, what you’ve achieved in life is a lot, nobody doubts that and there’s nothing wrong with that. But a large part is missing. YOU are missing.

You weren’t in the game the whole time. Time to change that, right?

No matter how hard it was for you back then, no matter how hard your whole life has been so far. No matter how difficult it is right now. You can choose to be yourself at any time. All those parts of yourself that you have hidden and forgotten, you can dig them out again.

Integrate them and bring them into your life and then what you have achieved so far will suddenly make sense. Then there is no more emptiness. Only abundance!

You can do it! And you don’t have to do it alone. I’ll help you. It’s not just my job, I’ve been through it myself. I didn’t learn this from books, I walked this path. The first step was the clear decision to set off.

And there is THE perfect time for this: NOW!

Right from the start

Imagine you decide one fine morning that you need new socks. Maybe the old ones are worn out or you don’t like them anymore. Anyway, you want new ones. So you decide to go out and buy some.

You have a nice breakfast and then off you go. Well, breakfast took a bit longer, but you still get out of the house before noon. Off to the nearest shopping center.

It’s pretty exciting. First of all, you get stuck at the pan seller’s stand because he can talk so funny. Let show you everything, take a good look at everything. You don’t need a pan, but hey … you can never have enough pans.

Moving on with the biggest and thickest pan in the bag, you wanted … socks! Right, socks. So on with the text.

As far as the shoe store. Yes, shoes, you’ve never really been there before, so I went in and had a good look through everything. Somehow you manage not to leave all your money there, but it won’t be cheap.

Then you’ll get through it and with a few more bags in tow you’ll realize that you’re really hungry. It’s already afternoon, how time flies. There was something else you wanted, wasn’t there? Anyway, let’s eat something first.

Another coffee and then you’ll remember. Socks! So off I went and promptly ended up at the nearest Mediamarkt. There are exciting things there, the latest computers and televisions and so on. You don’t spend any money here, but you do spend a lot of time.

Something is pinching and pulling you, but you ignore it. Then the pinching and pulling gets stronger and you look at the clock and it’s a quarter of an hour before closing time. Something tells you that you have forgotten something … something …

Socks! You’ve wasted the whole day and still no socks! But now quickly. Damn!

Where is the morality?

Do you know that from somewhere? No, not from your socks, but from your life?

What are you incarnated here for? Wasn’t there something? Somehow? Besides all the functioning and making and doing and running around and running away? We humans are spiritual beings who incarnate in a material world.

Not just to hang out here, but because we want to gain experience and sometimes have very specific goals.

Unfortunately, our delivery doesn’t come with an instruction manual with a list of what we want here. You had it easier in the metaphor above. At least then it was clear that you wanted to buy socks.

Nevertheless, you only just managed it. Now imagine that you still have to find out what you want to achieve. This is exactly how life works and it probably has to, because it is part of the experience for which we incarnate. Over and over again.

And what if …

But what if you have no idea what you want here? This happens quite often, because we do not incarnate in empty space. Instead, we end up in an existing system that automatically places expectations on us.

In which we first have to function in order to survive. And it’s not uncommon for us to get so used to it that we don’t realize for a long time that there’s more to it. We live the expectations of others and not our own lives.

That always goes well for a while, but at some point it starts to pinch. At some point, your intentions, your repressed soul parts, everything that you have not yet realized in the world will come to light. And the longer you ignore it, the stronger it becomes.

This can lead from a vague feeling of “something is wrong, there must be something else”, to depression and even fatal illness. You’ll either understand the message at some point, or it’s closing time.

You can make the decision yourself, nobody can do that for you. But you don’t have to walk the path to you alone. That’s why there are companions like me who can look deeper than you can with yourself.

Write to me right now and let’s find out who you really are.

Professionally, it’s really bad. If you’re successful, you have to be stressed. Do a lot, get a lot done, preferably overtime, but never nothing. And above all, never let it show … that is … actually. The people around you have to notice how powerful, dynamic and efficient you are. So always show just enough stress so that you are seen as powerful but not in poor health. Because that would reveal weakness. What stress!

Then it continues in your free time. After all, if you are successful and have a lot of stress, you have to reduce it again. And the best way to do this is skiing, horse riding, in the gym, on a short break, with or without wellness, in the theater, museum, cinema … pure stress, this stress relief.

But you can afford it and you don’t treat yourself to anything else.

Anyone who has ever come to the end of their tether, the much-cited and already socially acceptable burnout, knows where this leads. Yes, it is socially acceptable, who still has a good old heart attack these days? No, even when we choose the most elegant way to drive our health against the wall, we still stress ourselves out by choosing the longest possible option.

Once you have overcome this phase, self-discovery naturally follows. Which can be quite stressful if you look at the many offers …

Already in kindergarten

It starts in kindergarten. No, actually long before that. If you have children yourself, take a deep look inside yourself and realize what you automatically expect from your children.

Can you just let your children do nothing? So really nothing? What happens when you have a child who stares holes in the air for hours on end? Or does some kind of “nonsense”? What if you have a child who doesn’t want to play? And certainly not with other children? A child who doesn’t want to learn anything?

What if your child can’t do what other children their age can already do? What if it is not so lively or much livelier than the others? What if it doesn’t conform to the norm, doesn’t learn to read, count or write on time?

Can you feel the stress behind it?

What if your child gets sick? A cold or whatever. Do you drag it to the doctor so that it gets well again very quickly? And can do something again? Isn’t that normal?

And if it doesn’t do anything, then you offer something. Even if it’s the TV or the tablet. Then they do nothing before that? Wrong. Motionless staring at moving images is pure stress. The brain is working like crazy, but the body has to be kept calm.

The situation is similar in traditional frontal teaching. The brain has to work like crazy because it has to memorize all the input. But the body must be kept calm. When you get home, you continue to learn, take in more input and save it.

But can all this be processed? No, no time. The next input is already waiting. The child actually needs time. Not a few hours, but a few weeks. Or months. To sort through the stored knowledge, supplement it with your own experiences and thus reach a point where you understand the connections and, if necessary, question them.

No time! Not in kindergarten, not at school, not at university and certainly not at work. And don’t you dare take the time to question something. Believe me, you’ll become the “enemy” so quickly that you’ll leave it at that.

Career

It becomes really difficult if you are aiming for a career in a larger company or group. In addition to the company system, there is also the group system. And a career means – you can say what you like – above all adapting and running along. Within the limits of what you are allowed.

And overtime. Often a lot of overtime. Plus constant availability and that special kind of responsibility that always leaves you with one foot in the abyss. In addition, you will earn more money, but you will need it to organize your life in such a way that you are eligible for the next career level. You won’t get out. At least not without destroying everything you have built up.

The system

Because a system, no matter which one, always automatically does everything it can to preserve itself. A system has to do this, otherwise it runs the risk of collapsing. And what is the fastest way to collapse a system?

People who question it and then change it. This must be prevented and the system in which we live in the western world does this very efficiently. And for a very, very long time. It keeps us so busy that we simply don’t have time to question it. Because there is so much new input that we can no longer keep up with saving it.

Of course, such a system is not bad per se. I even believe that we always need a system in order to live. Even primitive peoples live in a system. The whole world is a system. In itself, a system is not something that needs to be removed. However, it is important to understand the rules of the game.

Because a system like the one we have today is very easy to manipulate by those who know how it works. All you have to do is check the information and that is extremely easy to do – provided you have the necessary small change.

Those who control what information is in circulation and visible, who control what is memorized, who control what people are afraid of and who therefore also control people’s behaviour.

In the past it was “the church”, today it is “science” or “the media” or the corporation. That’s where the input comes from, so much so that you hardly ever have a chance to question anything. Even if you wanted to, you wouldn’t have the time.

Unless you’re doing it on purpose. If you manage to keep a window of time free for it. If you risk being immediately penalized by the system.

How do I overcome this fear and the danger?

What can I do to change things without crashing or losing control?

Getting out is out of the question for most people. Not because they can’t imagine or finance it. But because you always take yourself with you, no matter how far away you travel. You always have yourself and your emotional patterns and entanglements with you. ALWAYS!

The first and most important step is to understand how the system works. To understand how you got into it. Understanding that the system will never give you the information you need to leave it.

If you were the system, you wouldn’t reveal the outcome, would you?

So the way is not to work even harder, read even more, learn even more. The exit begins at the point at which you reflect on the fears that the system implants in you.

You can’t run away, and certainly not from yourself!

They need to be dissolved, these entanglements, these outdated thought patterns, these resonances that always make us do what others tell us to do – and never what we really want. If we have even come this far in knowing what we want. The greatest effort is often to separate what we want from what we have been led to believe we should want.

If you now think that the shaman is chatting out of the box even though he has no idea, let me tell you: I’ve been through it all! Everything! You don’t become a shaman from books, you become a shaman by learning by doing. So I have dissolved them, the entanglements, thought patterns and beliefs. At least many of them, but certainly enough to be able to help other people do the same.

In the end, this does not lead to an exit from society, quite the opposite. It leads to strong and self-determined people who really have power and often change society in the long term.

Feel free to contact me if you also want to find the exit. Not out of all systems, but into one that YOU yourself help to shape according to YOUR needs.

Christmas is just around the corner and has been on the shelves since the beginning of October. The nights are getting longer again, the days are getting shorter and some people are in a darker mood.

Sure, less light, less heat, more indoors, less outdoors, that all plays a part. But not only that. Because in the dark season, some things happen that you can’t quite put your finger on straight away.

We suddenly feel things that we don’t normally feel, our perception changes, some of the issues that we are so good at covering up in the summer now catch up with us. And so we just muddle through and hope that spring will come soon.

In all this muddling through, however, we are overlooking what a huge opportunity we are missing. Because when it is darkest, the gates to the spiritual world and therefore also the gates to ourselves and our innermost being are wide open.

When, if not now, should we take care of ourselves?

The time between the years

If we do this, we inevitably stumble across the term ” Rauhnächte “. But what are these Rauhnächte? Where do they come from? And what do we do with them? And why are the Rauhnächte also the “time between the years”?

The latter is easy to answer, as it goes back to the lunar calendar. A year made up of twelve lunar months only has 354 days, so somehow 12 nights are missing. And these were then referred to as the nights between the years.

All sorts of customs developed around this time, I don’t want to go into that here, because you can read about it in countless books and the internet is full of information

What is happening and when exactly?

What is much more important to me is the question of what is happening during this time? And when exactly is this time? Because there are also a lot of opinions about this, and people argue whether the Rauhnächte begin on December 21 at the winter solstice or on December 24. Whether it’s 12 nights or just three or more than 12 … and and and …

It’s all completely irrelevant! Because the gates to the spiritual world do not open at a specific time every minute and then close again. There is no store closure law for Rauhnächte.

No, it starts gradually and ends the same way. Depending on how sensitive you are, the start of this period can be felt as early as the beginning of December or even earlier. So let’s leave the exact schedule out of it. Much more important is the question of what exactly is going on?

Which is not so easy to answer. Sure, the gates to the spiritual world are opening. Ok, if someone doesn’t know what the spiritual world is, they won’t be able to do much with it. Let me explain it like this: The spiritual world is the spiritual level from which everything material arises. In other words, where we come from, where the soul lives.

Every incarnated human being is not only here on this planet but also on the spiritual plane at the same time. Sometimes we call this our “higher self”. And it’s not just us, but a whole host of entities.

Be it the beings of nature or the heavenly beings or whatever else we may encounter. In normal everyday life, these worlds are usually separate, we hardly have access unless we specifically seek it.

In the time between the years it’s different, the separation becomes thinner, we gain access more easily. And thus also access to ourselves. If you don’t know about it, you can get into a real mess.

The effects

Some people don’t sleep well during this time, their thoughts are spinning, old issues that they thought were long since resolved come up again. Fears, insecurities, such things are increasingly coming to the fore and want to be looked at.

Your environment is freaking out, and not because Christmas is always stressful. No, Christmas is a stressful time because it’s the Holy Nights. Most people just don’t realize it, they try to run away from themselves and the best place to do that is in the pedestrian zone while shopping. As much as possible, as loud as possible, as colorful as possible. Or on Amazon. Less loud but all the more stressful.

And then they are back home again and fall into a hole … unless they find something to distract themselves with. Wrapping presents, meticulously planning Christmas Eve, getting on the family’s nerves … things like that.

If you are already one step ahead with yourself, you will be more aware of what is happening. He or she will sense the issues that still need to be resolved, will get an outlook on where the journey can go, will not only sense chaos but also clarity.

And outside Europe?

This all sounds like a purely German or at best European phenomenon. Especially if we see the Rauhnächte as part of a Celtic (whatever that means exactly) annual cycle.

And the name, which is derived from smoke, also suggests that the Rauhnächte are more for cold and dark seasons. But what if I am now in Latin America, Africa, Asia or Australia? So it’s none of my business?

Of course, you can think like that, but my experience on a permanent trip around the world is different. The climate may be warmer elsewhere, there may be no seasons at all and the position of the sun may be different.

But you can feel and use the energetic effects and, above all, the opportunities that arise from this all over the world. The Rauhnächte in Mexico, Bali or deepest Africa are just as intense as in snowy Bavaria.

The mood may be different, but the energy is the same and you can use it in the same way. And my energetic accompaniment through this time works equally well all over the world, as participants from South Africa, Indonesia, Singapore, Miami, Brazil and many other parts of the world have confirmed.

What can I do?

Nothing! So, I don’t mean that you can’t do anything about it. But that you should consciously do nothing more often during this time. Sit on the couch and sit there. Don’t run away, let the issues come up. Meditate when you feel like it. Listen to music when you feel like it. Stop thinking if you can do it. Consciously go into silence, don’t join in the hype and don’t let your loved ones drag you into it.

And if you do that, then you have created the conditions to benefit from the close connection to the spiritual world. You don’t need to know or be able to do very much. Of course, if you are a shaman, you travel to the Otherworld more than usual. If you are a healer as well. If you meditate a lot, you meditate more intensely.

But if you can’t or don’t want to do all that, then just sit on your couch and let life go as it may. Go through with it and you’ll find that the new year starts much more relaxed than usual.

You don’t have to do anything between the years! You don’t have to present anything between the years! You don’t have to be able to do anything between the years! And you don’t have to invite the whole family!

Just BE! And surround yourself with people who are really good for you, if they are good for you. If not, then not. It’s as simple as that.

And if you want support with this, then there is the Rauhnachtsbegleitung for you ...

You’ve known about it for a while, the date was set last week. But when it happens, it’s something else. So here he comes, the shaman. To them in the spiritual world, whatever he has to look for there. They had everything so well under control. The real ER lay neatly in chains, no problem. As long as no one came to look, of course, but that wasn’t to be expected, was it?

It happens

Now it happens anyway, the shaman comes. But no problem, the two guards have prepared everything. But as the saying goes: “No plan survives the first contact with the enemy”, so you have to be vigilant.

“He doesn’t look that dangerous”, ONE tries to help TWO with his little acting job. “That’s right”, replies ZWEI, “quite harmless guy, this shaman”.

Of course he’s not stupid and doesn’t come rolling in with a tank, he can look quite harmless, just coming to have a look, nothing bad in mind.

And so he comes over with a very nice greeting. “Hello”, “I’m Singing Wolf and I’ve come to help”. “Yeah no, of course”, TWO puts on his sweetest smile “Hello too, welcome”, “what’s it all about?”. “Oh, nothing special,” replied Singing Wolf, “my client, your body in the material world, hasn’t been feeling so well for a while, so I wanted to see what’s going on, maybe I can do something?”.

“Oh yes”, ZWEI acts quite harmlessly, “it’s a bit exhausting at the moment, so much upheaval and change everywhere“, “you can run out of energy”. “Sure,” Singer Wolf plays along with the game, “but I can help with that, I’ll let a little energy flow, if that’s okay?”. “Yeah, sure,” both guards nod in relief, a little energy would hardly be a problem. Apparently he doesn’t notice anything, the great shaman.

Something is strange, they both feel it, but the whole situation is not ordinary. They had already done this dozens of times in the past. Since they had both fallen on the battlefield, simply stabbed, left lying there, alone. They didn’t realize right away that they were dead. But at some point it clicked and there they were. Two souls, somehow lost on their way to the afterlife.

But once they had figured out how to get a body, all was right with the world again. They stayed together, it was much easier together. There was hardly ever any resistance, occupying bodies, imprisoning the higher self, having fun. It was easiest with the drunks, who had nothing to oppose an occupation. By the time they got back to themselves, everything was over and they didn’t even notice. Or the people in the hospitals, full of morphine, it couldn’t be easier.

Of course, they had to change their host from time to time, even the best person dies at some point, but there were plenty of new victims. No problem. Until now!

Now they are panicking, because the fact that someone from the real world is coming to check up on them is new. That is threatening. Now it’s all to play for, but their little maneuver seems to be working. The guy is certainly not omniscient, even with such a strange name. What is singing wolf supposed to mean? Some weirdo who thinks he can play God?

“Now he’s probably starting that thing with the energy he was talking about,” ZWEI can just think to himself as it pulls the rug from under his feet. Everything is spinning, he sees ONE go down, he feels sick. “What the …” he can no longer say it. This singing wolf is doing something, he can’t recognize it, he just sees that HE is suddenly standing in front of him. Free, without shackles, that can’t be true.

Then everything happens very quickly, ONE and TWO know that it’s over, know that they no longer have a chance. “Brings it to an end”, ZWEI shouts and then it happens … but it’s not the end at all. What did they expect? It is the beginning. Singing Wolf is not evil or brutal, no, he is gentle and loving. And he shows them a way. The path they should have taken back then.

But now? After such a long time? “Who would want us there now?” But everyone is there, the parents, the brothers, the sisters, the whole family. Jesus, and light … lots of light … it’s beautiful …

She had defended herself, fought, and yet the order came from deep within her again and again: “kill them!” … “all of them!”. She was still trying with all her might to suppress this urge, but how much longer would she be able to hold out?

That was easy for them to say, their friends from the meditation circle. “You have to allow light and love”, “you have to bring light into your shadow parts“, “you have to find yourself” … they preached it to her again and again in one way or another. And she wanted that too, with all her might. She wanted to fight what seemed to be brewing inside her with all her strength, suppress it, it couldn’t be allowed.

Her family had already noticed, her husband sometimes looked at her funny when she shouted at her two children out of nowhere. Afterwards she cried, she didn’t want any of this, but she would lose the fight, there was no longer any doubt about that. “Kill them all!” … “Kill them!” …

Even the shaman she had practically stumbled across on Facebook wouldn’t be able to change that. Although, he seemed to have a different view of things than her meditation friends. He spoke about listening to, accepting and integrating the shadow part.

“Kill her!” … but he didn’t know how bad things really were for her either, he seemed to underestimate the danger. How could she integrate something like that? She was about to kill her family and God knows who else. There was no way out. Certainly not.

Nevertheless, she went to him. He couldn’t help her, but he had to realize that not everything was as easy to solve as he imagined in his ideal world of shamans. He would see.

So now she was sitting with him, the first appointment, and what did he suggest? A shamanic journey directly to the shadow. She had told him straight from the horse’s mouth that it was about killing people. “Kill her!” very clearly, even now, as she sat in front of this guy. He didn’t seem to be impressed at all, indeed he would never understand! Didn’t he get it? That he was also in danger.

Apparently not, because he began his work completely unmoved. He would open a “sacred space” and then travel directly to the subject. She should just relax and not worry. No worries?!

She was quickly drawn in by the monotonous sound of the drum, into a state that actually brought her some relaxation, relaxation that she hadn’t had at all in recent months. She hadn’t seen anything during this journey, but the order to kill didn’t come either. It almost seemed as if this voice was just distracted. Should he really be talking to her right now?

Apparently he had done just that, at least that’s what he claimed after the meeting. He would have spoken to this very shadow and it would have been delighted to finally be noticed. The shaman compared it to a child being ignored. It would scream louder and louder until it was heard. “Nice comparison”, she thought to herself, “obviously he still hasn’t got it”. Not a child! No, a voice that forced them to kill. Even if she didn’t seem to be doing that at the moment, strange.

The voice also seemed to fade into the background over the next few days – could the shaman be right after all? She would find out, because the next appointment with him was coming up and she was starting to get curious.

The second appointment was similar to the first, only this time she was to try to get in touch with her shadow theme herself during the drum journey. Easier said than done, she wasn’t really convinced that she could do it. She couldn’t. There was no sign of any shadow or even an evil figure during the whole journey. Instead, she thought of her grandparents, who had been dead for a long time. And she saw a lot of people she couldn’t place. None of them seemed angry in any way, a few of them were visibly distressed, but that was it.

“Probably a flop after all,” she thought after she was seated again. “No shadow, not even anything evil, wherever I was, at least not with anyone who would make me kill.” Nevertheless, the shaman seemed quite enthusiastic. We would be getting closer? Seriously?

He had seen them too, these people. And he explained to her that they were her ancestors. And they all had their issues, they all suffered. Both in the material world and on the level of the soul. And they would hardly have had the opportunity to work through all these things. Other things were more important, wars, hunger, poverty, the near past was probably worse than people imagined the “good old days” to be.

They all carried bad things around with them and had to suppress them in order to function and survive. And such topics would be passed on from generation to generation. She wasn’t at all thrilled to hear all this, what should it have to do with her?

Was she suffering from the experiences of days long gone, but why kill? Was it ultimately a cry from days long past? Was the shaman right? At least the voice seemed to be silent now. And it did the same in the following sessions, in which they worked together to resolve all the issues from old and new times. Much of it was no longer relevant, much of it just wanted to be seen and acknowledged. Slowly, she began to understand.

The earlier “kill her” became the realization that she could kill, any human could. But the pressure disappeared, the compulsion was no longer there. And finally, the ability to kill became as theoretical a possibility as flying an airplane or driving a car. A person can do it if they choose to, but they have the freedom to decide for themselves! Always!

She had understood! She had finally understood. And what opportunities this opened up! She could now look at all the thoughts and dreams and compulsions she had buried deep inside her and decide for herself how and whether she wanted to live them or not.

And the moral of the story?

This example may seem extreme to you. An order to kill is also extreme. However, what I have described in a slightly exaggerated form is an extremely common principle.

Or have you never had one of these “dark”, forbidden thoughts? They are not always those who call for violence. No, quite the opposite. Perhaps it’s even about joy, pleasure, sensual experience or even money and wealth. Or actually about violence, you would by no means be alone in that.

Are you allowed to live out your zest for life? Yes? Even when your family is ill? Ahh … that’s where the doubts come in. “No, then of course not”. And if things aren’t going well financially, are you allowed to spend money? No? Another dark thought, isn’t it?

Have you ever found someone sexy even though you’re in a relationship? Bam! Also a forbidden thought.

Can you take more from yourself than your fellow human beings? Can you be louder than them? Are you allowed to reject people, cancel friendships, dislike people? Can you tell the douchebag that he’s a douchebag?

Are you allowed to be rich, waste resources, be a loudmouth, an egoist? Ahhh … there are a lot of these dark, forbidden thoughts.

And you know what? They’re quite real, but they’re not yours at all. Because your own thoughts are neither dark nor forbidden. Why should they?

No, as soon as these thoughts live a shadowy existence, they are either learned or inherited. And in both cases they can be processed. Which releases a lot of energy in you, because suppressing them all again and again or even living them out secretly drains a lot of your life energy.

Do you recognize yourself? Then write to me. Now.

But the parents

Only some parents start to think about it at some point. Namely when the child is already in school and still sucking his thumb. I mean, you don’t notice it at night, but still.

And when they get older and are still sucking, the parents start to panic. After all, there are even adults who still do it unconsciously. The number of unreported cases is probably quite high …

However, why do the kids do that? Of course, sucking is mother’s breast and mother’s breast is safety. Logical. Need the little ones. And if it’s not the breast, it’s the dummy and if it’s not the dummy, it’s the thumb.

With increasing security in life, it is ok if the mother’s breast is no longer present everywhere and then the sucking also becomes less. If everything is in order.

But if not, then it’s worth taking a look. Because then there is a piece of security missing somewhere. They suck their thumbs because they have the feeling that the ground is being pulled out from under their feet.

There is no security, no basis. “They do what they want to me” is the psychological message behind it. All unconsciously, of course. And it is not always clear where this comes from. Not all the kids affected come from a broken home or are children of divorce who have been pushed around.

For some, everything looks good, but the basis is still missing. Then you might have to look deeper. Perhaps this is an issue they have from their parents. Or the grandparents or even further back.

Maybe there is something from the previous life, or maybe it is something from the current incarnation that nobody has noticed. Whatever it is, it needs to be looked at and taken seriously.

Smearing something on the child’s thumb or tying it to the bed only makes things worse. I just wanted to say …