{"id":2173,"date":"2019-10-15T15:40:00","date_gmt":"2019-10-15T15:40:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gerhard-zirkel.com\/thumb-sucking-from-a-psychological-perspective\/"},"modified":"2023-12-30T08:14:18","modified_gmt":"2023-12-30T08:14:18","slug":"thumb-sucking-from-a-psychological-perspective","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/en\/thumb-sucking-from-a-psychological-perspective\/","title":{"rendered":"Thumb sucking from a psychological perspective"},"content":{"rendered":"<header class=\"single-posts-header\">\n    <div class=\"single-posts-header__image\" data-aos=\"fade-up\" data-aos-duration=\"1000\" data-aos-mirror=\"true\">\n        <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1008\" src=\"https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/dummy-92579-1920-1080.webp\" class=\"attachment-size-full size-size-full wp-post-image\" alt=\"Gerhard Zirkel\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/dummy-92579-1920-1080.webp 1920w, https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/dummy-92579-1920-1080-300x158.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/dummy-92579-1920-1080-1024x538.webp 1024w, https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/dummy-92579-1920-1080-768x403.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/dummy-92579-1920-1080-1536x806.webp 1536w, https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/dummy-92579-1920-1080-345x181.webp 345w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/>    <\/div>\n    <div class=\"container\">\n        <div class=\"row\">\n            <div class=\"col-12\">\n                <div class=\"single-posts-header__heading\" data-aos=\"fade-up\" data-aos-duration=\"900\"\n                    data-aos-mirror=\"true\">\n                    <h1>Thumb sucking from a psychological perspective<\/h1>\n                    <div class=\"description\">There are children who suck their thumbs. Quite a few, in fact. If they don&#8217;t have the dummy or something. That&#8217;s okay, there&#8217;s nothing wrong with it.<\/div>\n                <\/div>\n                <div class=\"single-posts-header__author\" data-aos=\"fade-up\" data-aos-duration=\"900\"\n                    data-aos-mirror=\"true\">\n                    <div class=\"author\">\n                        <div class=\"author__image\">\n                            <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"345\" height=\"230\" src=\"https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/47a60ac594c7d84493e3c888a7872f3a-345x230.webp\" class=\"attachment-size-thumbnail size-size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Gerhard Zirkel\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/47a60ac594c7d84493e3c888a7872f3a-345x230.webp 345w, https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/47a60ac594c7d84493e3c888a7872f3a-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/47a60ac594c7d84493e3c888a7872f3a.webp 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 345px) 100vw, 345px\" \/>                        <\/div>\n                        <div class=\"author__name\">Gerhard Zirkel<\/div>\n                    <\/div>\n                    <div class=\"publish_date\">\n                        <span>\n                            15.10.2019                        <\/span>\n                    <\/div>\n                <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n<\/header>\n\n<div class=\"container\">\n    <div class=\"row\">\n        <div class=\"col-12\">\n            <div class=\"single-posts-content\" data-aos=\"fade-up\" data-aos-duration=\"800\" data-aos-mirror=\"true\">\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">But the parents<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Only some parents start to think about it at some point. Namely when the child is already in school and still sucking his thumb. I mean, you don&#8217;t notice it at night, but still.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And when they get older and are still sucking, the parents start to panic. After all, there are even adults who still do it unconsciously. The number of unreported cases is probably quite high &#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, why do the kids do that? Of course, sucking is mother&#8217;s breast and mother&#8217;s breast is safety. Logical. Need the little ones. And if it&#8217;s not the breast, it&#8217;s the dummy and if it&#8217;s not the dummy, it&#8217;s the thumb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With increasing security in life, it is ok if the mother&#8217;s breast is no longer present everywhere and then the sucking also becomes less. If everything is in order.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But if not, then it&#8217;s worth taking a look. Because then there is a piece of security missing somewhere. They suck their thumbs because they have the feeling that the ground is being pulled out from under their feet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is no security, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/en\/the-light-trap-and-zero-confidence\/\" title=\"The light trap and zero confidence\">no basis<\/a>. &#8220;They do what they want to me&#8221; is the psychological message behind it. All unconsciously, of course. And it is not always clear where this comes from. Not all the kids affected come from a broken home or are children of divorce who have been pushed around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For some, everything looks good, but the basis is still missing. Then you might have to <a href=\"\/en\/your-point-of-entry\/\" title=\"\">look deeper<\/a>. Perhaps this is an issue they have from their parents. Or the grandparents or even further back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe there is something from the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gerhard-zirkel.com\/en\/extra-or-leading-actor\/\" title=\"Extra or leading actor?\">previous life<\/a>, or maybe it is something from the current incarnation that nobody has noticed. Whatever it is, it needs to be looked at and taken seriously.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Smearing something on the child&#8217;s thumb or tying it to the bed only makes things worse. I just wanted to say &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are children who suck their thumbs. Quite a few, in fact. If they don&#8217;t have a dummy or something. 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